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Silent Sex
| Tue, 06-21-2005 - 3:12am |
When my bf and I make love, he is a silent love maker. I mean I'm not all out there either, but he is so quiet. We've talked about it and he says he's always been quiet when doing the deed. It's not a problem for me. We both agree the love making is great. Sometimes though I'd like for him to lose control. You know yell, scream, moan, or something. It would just feel good to see him go wild, if you ladies know what I mean.
Does anyone else have a silent lover, or do you have any tips on how to make silent lovers more vocal?

Some people are quiet and some are more vocal.
Well, you might like for him to lose control occasionally but since your BF has said that this is the way he is, then you probably should accept that he's silent for a reason. He may need to concentrate to reach orgasm and it might not be possible for him to do it any other way.
YOu can't change what he is. You can talk about it, but he's silent, and will probably stay that way. Have you looked at his face during the "moment of truth"? It's probably contorted in a "silent" scream! Anyway, he could probably make noise just to please you, but would you really want that?
I've been with noisy men....and sometimes SO noisy that I have to wonder if it's real, or for "effect".