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| Thu, 05-13-2004 - 10:37am |
Thank you. ;}
Now, I'm a guy who's willing to learn. I'm embarrassingly curious to know what women or what you women like to hear "in bed", make any sense?
What types of things would you advise us 'guys' to focus on? Hmmm...what things should we avoid that we guys do not know of? (reminder: I said that we do not know of!) :)
Of course I could ask the Mrs., but it'd be fun to surprise her rather than bore her with what she already expects when it comes to something like that. Besides, there just may be some ideas that you ladies have that others of you didn't think of either. Hey, can't beat that.
By all means, feel free to compare what you like and what you believe women in general would love to hear. Also, bring on the details, including what you'd like guys to "do" or NOT do as they speak the magic words. Puppy dog face? James Bond confidence? Caveman grunts? Jock lingo?...babe? Please focus on the "words" when detailing.
Very much appreciate it, hopefully we'll all benefit.
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Leticia
Hey Para, great to see you back.
I like to hear what he's feeling (graphic is great), but I don't like to be asked questions when I'm in the throes of pleasure.
CL-Yasmin1967
May I have the serenity to accept what I cannot change,
the courage to change the things I
If he's comfortable with dirty talk, then thats just fine - but if he's not, and all of a sudden started, I think it'd be more funny than a turn on. I also don't enjoy being called derogatory names during sex (eg: whore) or Mommy is not a good one either! LOL
I don't like to hear excessive loud screaming, it makes me self conscious & uncomfortable because I have children and I live in a half house with neighbors right on the other side of the wall.
Oh, the ultimate turn off - the thing I hate more than anything in the world.... To be asked "Did you cum?" and a close second is asking if I like something while he's doing it. If I DON'T like it, I'd change what we were doing or how we/he was doing it. If I'm letting things go the way they are, then I like them just fine! I don't want to be interviewed mid-enjoyment.
and after we're done, it's always nice to hear how much he enjoyed himself. A simple, 'that was wonderful' or something similar is sufficient. :)
RAOFL!!! THAT was GREAT! LOL!! That is so true when it comes to BOTH genders. LOL!
I appreciate all the input, ladies. Surprised to not hear from others out there on a fun topic like this one.
I think I understand that being wanted through being chased, and I also see the excitement of knowing what your guy is going to do to you later on. You ladies helped a whole lot. Hopefully we'll get more so we guys can uh...well...you know. ;)
Okay, now Yas, you hit something that was a major concern of mine. SOOO many times I read lady posts that sound just like my wife's thoughts: Why don't you "say" more when making love? I think that "...don't make me think..." thing is dead on.
I can't speak for all guys, but I'd be surprised if many or most didn't agree that we feel that way about communicating during love making. Make sense? If we say something, too many times it feels corny and often sounds fake. We're just not James Bond or Cary Grant or anything. I always tell Wifey to talk with her body. She likes that.
I guess I was wondering if any of you felt the same way. Don't we sound fake when we try to strum up words during sex? Any more details from others out there on how or what not to say or do?....DURING sex?
C H A R A C T E R
Never go over board!
Once in a while I prefer the sounds of moaning and groaning, it lets me know I'm getting the job done right.
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