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simultaneous orgasms?
| Tue, 09-06-2005 - 12:42am |
anyone have simultaneous orgasms during sex? what's your technique? or is that just hollywood being unrealistic? i'm curious to hear different opinions...

Sure, but certainly, not every single time! That IS Hollywood nonsense.
We usually accomplish simultaneous orgasms after lengthy foreplay so that we're at the same level of arousal when we begin intercourse. It helps to know your partner very well, too.
Yes, they are possible. I find that what it takes is a great deal of control by both partners. Ie; the ability to slow down or speed up an impending orgasm to tie in with your partner. You also need to be able to read your partner so that you know what the other is doing.
Having said all that, I find that simultaneous orgasms can be overrated. Especially considering that I prefer to have my orgasms by oral or digital rather than via intercourse.
Yes!!
My fiancee just hold off until I am about to...my shaking and quivering really gets him there...it is wonderful.
That is all it takes..knowing each other and a patient hubby.
Kris
DW orgasms very easily and repeatedly during IC, so that she almost always orgasms when I do. We don't have any special technique, but I moan her name when I'm approaching my peak so she responds by orgasming at the same time. Having simultaneous orgasms is wonderful, but it's just a small part of our sexual pleasure and occurs easily because we are really in tune with each other. I also find that her orgasms and contractions frequently help me reach my peak. Having said all that, sometimes I enjoy it more just to feel her orgasm while I'm not distracted by having my own. Since she does orgasm more than once, I am able to enjoy all of it.
taoist
My husband and I often orgasm simultaneously. We don't work at it or plan it that way, but it's just the way it comes... ;-) It turns me on so much when I know he's about to cum...it pushes me over the edge. I don't think it's unrealistic at all, in fact I feel the opposite to be true. Sex happens mostly in the mind...the body just follows. tee hee