simultaneous orgasms?

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simultaneous orgasms?
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Tue, 09-06-2005 - 12:42am
anyone have simultaneous orgasms during sex? what's your technique? or is that just hollywood being unrealistic? i'm curious to hear different opinions...
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Tue, 09-06-2005 - 1:09am

Sure, but certainly, not every single time! That IS Hollywood nonsense.

We usually accomplish simultaneous orgasms after lengthy foreplay so that we're at the same level of arousal when we begin intercourse. It helps to know your partner very well, too.

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Tue, 09-06-2005 - 2:27am
We actually have simultaneous orgasms most of the time, believe it or not. She can cum quite easily when she's on top. So when she gets on top and is bouncing around, the stimulation is usually too much for me and I'll usually cum as she's hitting hers. No technique involved. Sometimes I don't cum (I actually prefer the stimulation of other positions) and we'll finish seperately usually in missionary (where she can have another orgasm) or doggie or something.
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Tue, 09-06-2005 - 2:38am

Yes, they are possible. I find that what it takes is a great deal of control by both partners. Ie; the ability to slow down or speed up an impending orgasm to tie in with your partner. You also need to be able to read your partner so that you know what the other is doing.

Having said all that, I find that simultaneous orgasms can be overrated. Especially considering that I prefer to have my orgasms by oral or digital rather than via intercourse.

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Tue, 09-06-2005 - 4:33am
My wife and I always have simultaneous orgasms. She can have an orgasm at almost any time during sex. I might add that based on my past experiences, she is the exception rather than the rule. Sometimes she will have an orgasm when I go down on her and another when we have intercourse. It's not the end of the world not to have simultaneous orgasms. Lots of foreplay helps.
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Tue, 09-06-2005 - 5:18am

Yes!!

My fiancee just hold off until I am about to...my shaking and quivering really gets him there...it is wonderful.

That is all it takes..knowing each other and a patient hubby.

Kris

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Tue, 09-06-2005 - 6:52am

DW orgasms very easily and repeatedly during IC, so that she almost always orgasms when I do. We don't have any special technique, but I moan her name when I'm approaching my peak so she responds by orgasming at the same time. Having simultaneous orgasms is wonderful, but it's just a small part of our sexual pleasure and occurs easily because we are really in tune with each other. I also find that her orgasms and contractions frequently help me reach my peak. Having said all that, sometimes I enjoy it more just to feel her orgasm while I'm not distracted by having my own. Since she does orgasm more than once, I am able to enjoy all of it.

taoist

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Tue, 09-06-2005 - 4:43pm

My husband and I often orgasm simultaneously. We don't work at it or plan it that way, but it's just the way it comes... ;-) It turns me on so much when I know he's about to cum...it pushes me over the edge. I don't think it's unrealistic at all, in fact I feel the opposite to be true. Sex happens mostly in the mind...the body just follows. tee hee

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Tue, 09-06-2005 - 11:58pm
Simultaneous are quite frequent for us because my contractions help send him over the edge. Only once has he left me hanging! He's the only one I've been able to do this with and for us, there's not much foreplay involved.
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Thu, 09-08-2005 - 7:51pm
I've only had them a few times and I find that they're overrated. Oh, they're fun, certainly, but they really aren't any better than the normal orgasms I have ... it's just fun because it's at the same time as my bf. Also, we pretty much only have them when we're having sex in a car ... Hrm. Maybe it's because it's a "quickie" so neither of us are trying to last? Heh. I have no clue :-)