Simultaneous O's
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Simultaneous O's
| Sun, 04-18-2004 - 11:09pm |
So many erotic books, sex scenes in movies, etc. portray men and women having orgasms at the same time (or nearly so), usually during intercourse. I'm just curious as to how often that actually happens. I know many women don't O during intercourse, so obviously it wouldn't happen in that situation, but I'm just looking for a few of your experiences. Are you able to time your O's so that you and your partner cum together? Does it happen occasionally but not often? Is it something you care about, something to be aimed for--or does it take away from the experience because you're only conscious of your own pleasure rather than your partner's?
I personally have never had intercourse...I'm just curious about the future. :-) Thanks for your input.

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Is it something to "aim" for, no, not really. Is it nice, yes, but certainly not essential! It takes nothing away from the pleasure, because even though you're "into it", you're also conscious of what your partner is doing.
I have done it before and find that for me,
CL-Yasmin1967
May I have the serenity to accept what I cannot change,
the courage to change the things I
The physics behind this also increases the enjoyment for me at this point (I freely admit my geekness here). One of the functions of the female orgasm is to more easily pump the guy's semen into her uterus by opening up the cervix and sucking up the pooled semen from the fornix area. The main reason semen is sticky and gooey at first is to stick to the fornix area long enough to be sucked in. Semen generally gets more fluid after a few minutes and then oozes to wherever gravity sends it to.
In my mind I'm imagining my semen spurting straight onto her hungrily sucking cervix.
After we come down we just lie still, motionless in each other's arms. We get aftershocks, but for the most part, it's just a slow "touchdown" back to reality.
This is why I like it so much. Apologies in advance if I grossed anyone out.
Edited 4/20/2004 1:27 am ET ET by muttley44
Simultaneous orgasms are great but they don't happen very often for most of us. Too many factors can interfere and distract from the rhythm, mood, intensity, etc. It's nice to try for but isn't necessary to have a great experience. All that matters to us is that we're happy and satisfied afterwards. HOW we get there is not important.
Leticia
We do mutual oral, but I rarely orgasm this way, and we find that at some point we just need to focus on her (or me) because it's difficult to concentrate on doing oral when you yourself are orgasming. This is why intercourse works better for having simultaneous orgasms.
taoist.
Leticia
Edited to say I was so wrong LOL. Just asked DH and he said yes, they are much stronger. He has never mentioned it before, so I assumed there wasn't a big difference. My fault *blush*
Edited 4/21/2004 2:26 pm ET ET by leticiaf
taoist.
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