Sister in Law : Need women's input

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Registered: 04-18-2005
Sister in Law : Need women's input
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Mon, 04-18-2005 - 6:45pm
I really have the hots for my sister in law and I have a feeling she feels the same. How can I find out, ie what can I say that would still leave me an out?
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Registered: 04-23-2004
Tue, 04-19-2005 - 7:11am
Especially when there are 2 separate but very similar threads, posted

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Tue, 04-19-2005 - 8:57am

My suggestion would be to look at your ring finger on your left hand. See that little band of gold there (assuming that you wear a wedding ring). The woman that wears the matching ring is your wife, not her sister. It is entirely possible that her sister was always a flirt. And now that you are family, you are safe to flirt with, because you won't act on it. If you try to advance things with her sister, at best you have misread her intentions and you create uncomfortable feelings between you and your wife's sister. At worst, you two start and affair and in the end tear apart three families when it comes out (and it will). So transfer the lusty feelings for your wife's sister to you wife and let her wonder why you are so horny.

CH

PS. I am a guy

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Registered: 03-21-2005
Tue, 04-19-2005 - 6:23pm

Do the words "Loraina Bobbitt" mean anything to you?

A pissed-off spouse may be capable of anything when crapped on in such a way. The least of which is your house, car, 1/2 the money, the kids....

Fantasize, jerk off, whatever.... but use your brain dude.

Now what was the point in getting married again?

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Registered: 04-01-2003
Tue, 04-19-2005 - 7:06pm

Maybe 'stephanie' is 'frank's' sister in law!

Ewww...what a family.

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Tue, 04-19-2005 - 7:11pm
Now THAT would be a perfect match! Frank? May I introduce you to Stephanie?
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Registered: 04-01-2003
Tue, 04-19-2005 - 10:11pm

Y'know, it just might work. We've got a BIL dying to get in his SIL's pants, and a supposed SIL who can't wait to do a BIL.

I'm still trying to figure out what in the OP would cause someone to get hot and horny (as opposed to giggling) as referenced in a post below.....

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Registered: 03-08-2005
Wed, 04-20-2005 - 9:45am

Hey, if you want to royally screw up your life with your family, go for it.

However, if you're an ADULT you'll know there's billions of other women in the world and not give this a thought. How could you even consider it?

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Registered: 09-25-2004
Thu, 04-21-2005 - 6:55pm
By god, what part of "forsaking all others" did you not understand when you took your wedding vows? May I imply how morally wrong that is? Not to mention how destroyed your wife would be if she found out that you had feelings for her sister, and how you..and am I to assume correctly that you cheated on your wife w/ her before you two got married? Where do the feelings of your wife factor in? Please, don't take your wedding vows seriously..We just say them for the benefit of hearing ourselves speak when we proclaim undying love to our spouse and promise to LOVE, HONOR, CHERISH, HAVE, HOLD, FORSAKE ALL OTHERS..All of this in sickness and in health...
Pardon me for being mean about it, but adultery never sits well with me.
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Registered: 09-25-2004
Thu, 04-21-2005 - 7:00pm
Excuse me, but you cheated on your husband with HIS BROTHER..You're no better than Frank..How'd your husband like knowing his wife slept with his brother? Ooky for him? JMHO
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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 04-21-2005 - 7:07pm
Bob, I have a feeling that "Frank" wasn't really serious with his post. Common sense would have told him the likely "input" he would get on a woman's website about such a proposal.