Sister in Law : Need women's input

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Sister in Law : Need women's input
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Mon, 04-18-2005 - 6:45pm
I really have the hots for my sister in law and I have a feeling she feels the same. How can I find out, ie what can I say that would still leave me an out?
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Mon, 04-25-2005 - 11:47am
Oh it happens all the time, Relax its just sex
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Mon, 04-25-2005 - 12:59pm
Not in all relationships it doesn't.

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Tue, 04-26-2005 - 12:29am
Maybe in them families that live WAAAAAAAYYY up in them thayer mountains, it does.... where they don't see no outsiders for years and years!
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Tue, 04-26-2005 - 12:57am
don't do it! She is your wife's sister for heavens sake! What, her mother next!?
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Tue, 04-26-2005 - 11:33am
No, its not "just sex." Marriage is a serious commitment meant to be taken literally. When you said, "I do" that meant that you do forsake all others, you do love your husband, you do honor him, you do cherish him, you do only have eyes, lust, and desire for him, and that you do only care about him, his needs, and your marriage. It doesn't mean you flop down on your back and spread your legs any time his brother comes into view. What kind of sick woman are you? I've heard of keeping it all in the family, but that's taking it too far. At least when I'm pregnant I know who my baby's daddy is because I didn't sleep with his family! For crying out loud, what business do you have being married if you can't commit yourself only to your husband? And this man to his wife? Do you like hurting people? Do you like diminishing people to piles of emotionally scarred crap because you crossed one line too many?! I hope your husband left you for sleeping with his brother..Or did you seriously keep it in the family all the way?! Oh, the shame of it..
What kind of sick joke is this anyway? Do you honestly think its funny to assume all of us here are naive and gullible? What kind of crap are you and Frank up to anyway?! This isn't funny anymore and I hope you guys get banned from the board for this stupid, childish, immature stunt.
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Tue, 04-26-2005 - 3:33pm
You remind me of the people who criticize Desperate Housewives which is one of the hottest shows in the Bible Belt down in the South...Hmmm...Preaching one thing but curious about other behaviors. If you don't like what I have to say then don't read it...and by the way I have already other women and men alike in hearing what I have to say and have personally emailed me to get more intimate details. Different Strokes for Different Folks. As for Frank, I'm not into men who wear panties.
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Tue, 04-26-2005 - 3:43pm
I happen to find the FICTIONAL show fun to watch when I'm not busy being devoted to my husband and my growing family. I live in the Bible Belt and I don't mix my relations amongst the family..But, of course I wasn't southern born and bred anyway. I'm sure that all of the people on here who seem so respectable and intelligent to know that infidelity doesn't work well in marriage back you up. From what I've read, girl, they all have the same opinion..If not close..to the one I have. The cheese stands alone.
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Tue, 04-26-2005 - 4:43pm
The fictional show is based on reality, TV has always been a reflection of the times. Secondly media has influenced people to behave differently so watch what you watch. Just recently the 20 year old who forged Kmart's stock certificates learned that from a movie. If I were you, I'd hide from those shows...I knew you were a naughty girl
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Tue, 04-26-2005 - 5:31pm

No one is denying that these things go on though. OF course they do....you're proof of that, aren't you? People do all kinds of things with no regard for anyone but themselves.

But personally, I would think that one would have to be pretty weak-minded to allow fictional characters on a TV show to determine their own morality and personal standards. Isn't that called "twisting in the wind?"




Edited 4/26/2005 5:36 pm ET ET by katmandoo2001
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Tue, 04-26-2005 - 6:03pm
Yeah, I'm naughty with my husband...I also watch Veronica Mars and you don't find me out there sleuthing. I also happen to watch America's Next Top Model, but you don't see me trying to model. I watch the Simpsons, too..I watch horror movies and period dramas(movies set in different time period). I also watch soap operas when I get the chance, but I'm not a tycoon of any sorts, married ten times, rich, sl*tty, or have three children by three different men and questioning the paternity of my 30 year old son while I look 30 myself and am portrayed as 30. I'm an out of work, 7th month pregnant, CNA with a child and a wonderful husband. I don't need the family to sate my sec drive...Or the television to help me live my life.