Size and Stamina

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Registered: 08-21-2004
Size and Stamina
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Tue, 04-24-2007 - 3:42am

For all you out there that would know,

My wife recently made a comment to me about how guys with larger endowments seemed to have more stamina (last longer before orgasm) than guys with smaller endowments. From other's experience, does this seem to be true?

Thanks in advance for your answers.

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Registered: 12-20-2004
Fri, 04-27-2007 - 8:50am
mrniceguy, you have stated you are 9", and that you like to hit bottom, I would think that would provide more stimulation for you than ,say a 6" penis that does not hit bottom and hits nothing with the head of his penis.
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Registered: 12-12-2006
Fri, 04-27-2007 - 9:27am
Then we could reverse the analogy. A "large" man might think he can rely on his size rather than his "talent"! And in my experience, that happens quite often. Bigger isn't always better.
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Registered: 12-20-2004
Fri, 04-27-2007 - 9:36am
There you go! A good analogy! Women often state that its how its used that counts, bigger is not always better...But I have a question.. Is a bigger one that is used well better than an average or smaller one which is used well, or is good just as good no matter the size?
My wife had a college bf who was long @ 9". She learned to dread sex with him because he always managed to slip, go too deep and hurt her..She said the anticipation of pain ruined the whole experience.
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Registered: 12-12-2006
Fri, 04-27-2007 - 10:26am
The brain is the largest sex organ. The brain has an important role in how long it takes for a man to finish. In some cases, they've trained themselves to last a long time. In other cases, they have an emotional hangup about it, and wind up finishing themselves because it just isn't working. If there's not a physical reason for it, then it's mental/emotional.
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Registered: 04-25-2007
Fri, 04-27-2007 - 10:31am
oooh really ur a smart cookie! yeh i guess someone with alot of expirience could be good at holding off
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Registered: 03-08-2004
Fri, 04-27-2007 - 12:30pm

It's about the

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Registered: 12-12-2006
Fri, 04-27-2007 - 12:46pm

If you're talking "average" as opposed to somewhat over "average", I suppose bigger would be better.......but then you have extremes....and after all, "average" consists of everything from "teensy" to "humungous". Either end of the scale wouldn't be too great....either for the "is it in?" factor or the "ouch" factor.

Fortunately, most guys are in the "average" range....and when they're on an even playing field, it comes down to "it's not what they've got, it's what they do with it".

And of course, there is a lot more to sex than just intercourse....and if that's all a guy goes for......BORING! As far as most women are concerned, it's the foreplay (where the penis isn't even a factor) where a man's knowledge counts. 50-60 years ago, it was nothing more than "wham bam, thank you ma'am"......and the women were supposed to be thrilled and grateful. Foreplay hadn't even been heard of then! I don't think that even most women knew about the clitoris, and it's importance, and 99% of men didn't know about it either.

Don't get me started, lol

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Registered: 10-28-2006
Fri, 04-27-2007 - 3:17pm

I agree with sukara. I'm not a man. But DH is and we are young, and at first
he couldn't last long at all. (We were virgins) He has learned how to control
his excitement and he has lasted much much longer. He is not small! But I don't
think that has anything to do with it.

Kareese.

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Registered: 04-25-2007
Fri, 04-27-2007 - 8:26pm
yeah thats so true!
wow makes alot of sense now

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