size difference!?!please help!

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Registered: 08-17-2004
size difference!?!please help!
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Tue, 08-17-2004 - 5:28pm
Firstly...this is my first time on the board so hello to everyone, and thanks in advance to anyone who can help me.

Iv been good friends with a guy for a while but just lately theres been alot of sexual attraction between us. On a few occasions we've stopped just short of having full sex.Each time its been me who's stopped it, although I've felt unable to tell him why. The problem is that I'm concerned that the sex will be painful and awkward for me as he is very big, in every sense,lol.He's a 6'3 rugby player and his penis is at least 9 inches, whereas I'm a tiny petite size 6, and its also my first time.As i said, i am close to this person, and know he'd be understanding and gentle, as he always has my interests at heart and is very caring of me and attentive to my needs. Not only do I feel guilty for not being able to go all the way with him, but I also am finding it increasingly difficult to stop myself in these situations. I was wondering if anyone has any ideas of how to make it easier? I don't want the experience to be bad for him, and I'm worried if it doesn't work he'll get no pleasure from it.

please help

emma x

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Registered: 04-23-2004
Tue, 08-17-2004 - 8:18pm

Hi Emma and welcome to the board.


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