'Size doesn't matter' contradictions
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'Size doesn't matter' contradictions
| Sun, 04-20-2008 - 10:18am |
There are some women who say size doesn't matter. Now I can believe that, but
| Sun, 04-20-2008 - 10:18am |
There are some women who say size doesn't matter. Now I can believe that, but
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....ah....sorry about that.....your majesty! ;-)
I have always agreed that women may have "preferences," but your accusation in your original post was that it was that we said "it doesn't matter" when it does.
Welcome to the board, Sandy.
The vagina has amazing capabilities ... remember, babies pass through that canal!
With proper arousal, the vagina will open up to receive things of varying sizes. If your lover has a larger penis, you will need to make sure you are properly aroused and lubricated. He may need to enter more slowly so you can adjust, but there shouldn't be any problems.
Interesting enough, not all small women have small vagina's .... not all large women have large vagina's. While overall size can vary a bit, women of any size can do a lot to control how their vagina reacts by practicing Kegel exercises and making sure their PC muscles are well toned.
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Here's a tool you might find helpful too:
Perfect Position Selector
http://choosers.ivillage.com/love/perfect_position/launcher.php
You can pick positions by size, which is an interesting option.
Hope you stick around. Feel free to join in anytime -- there's a great group of members here.
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All of these posts are making more and more glad that I am not a man, obsessed with a mere body part. I am certainly not obsessed with my breasts. My ex was a leg man and at only 5'4", I have short stubby legs, not the long toned ones like Tina Turner has that my ex wished I had. Master, on the other hand, is a breast man, and He loves mine, which are a 44D (even though I've been told by other men that I wasn't busty enough. But no way in hell am I going under the knife to please some man).
I would feel sorry for a man who attracted a woman only because of the size of a penis. You're not going to be having sex with her 24/7. What happens outside of the bedroom? What if she thinks your size is cool, but then realizes that because you think size is everything and technique is nothing and she finds this out? Is she going to stay just because you have so many inches but you don't know how to use it to please her? What's going to happen when you get ED? She's going to realize that she was only there for the sex and run for the hills. Staying together just because the sex is/was hot is futile. Been there done that, not doing that again! This whole thread reminds me of that advice column article that someone posted on one of the sex boards about the man whose wife had a double mastectomy and he would no longer have sex with her because her breasts were gone. If I were that woman I'd feel like he had only married me for a body part. Women are more than their breasts, just as men are more than their penises. If someone wanted me simply because of my breasts or legs or whatever I'd see him as very shallow and not worth spending my time with. I would think that a woman who only cared about a man's penis would be a very shallow person herself.
sisterhoney61 wrote: "I would think that a woman who only cared about a man's penis would be a very shallow person herself."
Posts keep revolving around size queens.
There's a BIG difference between "only" caring about penis size and simply admitting that size is ONE of the traits you look for in a man.
And for those who were offended, my apologies. I use "teeny wheenie" all the time when referring to small items (my teeny wheenie dog, my teenie wheeny thong, etc). I always thought of it as a light hearted word, not an offensive one.
no doubt, sisterhoney, everything you just said is true and makes absolute sense. certainly, a good and lasting relationship is not based on penis size. chances are, though, that most men (certainly young men) who have anxieties over size are single...and lack confidence to pursue a relationship in the first place.
Just like any anxiety, issues over penis size are emotional/psychological and are not rooted in reality. So 1000 women can state on this board that size doesn't matter; you can even post links to surveys that illustrate the same. Yet this won't sink in. Because our concerns over penis size are irrational. It's sort of like trying to convince the acrophobic that going up to the top of the empire state building is perfectly safe or the anorexic that she needs to eat. Rationale gets thrown out the window.
For me, it's not just size that has been an issue most of my life, but also shape: my glans are very conical-shaped, making my penis look especially small. I don't have that nice, thick, large head on my penis that most men (should) have.
For me, the kicker is the statistics I've read on penis size and age: the average erect penis for a 14-year old male is something like
As far as my reference to the Holland Tunnel goes, I often use that to describe things that have been eroded from constant water running over or through them or have become larger due to constant use.
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