'Size doesn't matter' contradictions

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'Size doesn't matter' contradictions
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Sun, 04-20-2008 - 10:18am

There are some women who say size doesn't matter. Now I can believe that, but

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Sat, 04-26-2008 - 2:44pm
I must have missed it. Were you offended?
If not, who was? I think it would be a "stretch" of things to think that all would be offended by such comments.
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Sat, 04-26-2008 - 3:06pm

OMG.......


Race doesn't matter to me, but I am offended by derogatory racial terms!

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Sat, 04-26-2008 - 3:25pm
That's hardly a fair comparison. It was a mathematical expression of size being too small to the poster, but as the poster explained it wasn't meant in any other way. Political correctness taken too far makes it very difficult to describe differences without someone becoming offended.
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Sat, 04-26-2008 - 3:48pm

Perhaps I can be clearer: I'm for political correctness, but only to an extent.


Concerning whether the tennie weenie remark was offensive, then

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Sat, 04-26-2008 - 3:57pm

Why are you hell bent on analyzing every part of speech?

Regardless of how one person may feel .... I think the "stereotypical" thinking is that a long dong would be a compliment while a teeny weenie would be a put down.

Perhaps you should take a survey on that -- what the meanings are perceived as.







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Sat, 04-26-2008 - 6:34pm

I can't believe this is still going on... Geesh, why is it so hard for some people to believe that not all women care what size penis a man has.... Yes, there are some that to them it's important, but I think to most of is



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Sun, 04-27-2008 - 2:11pm

Wow, quite a few posts here. I admit, I didn't read them all, but doesn't this issue just come down to the definition of "matter"? For instance, I think a lot of people interpret this as meaning "would I reject this person based on size". I think most women would say No to this question; therefore, there answer is "size does not matter".

Does a women have a preference in size is another way to view the question, "does size matter". After all, you cannot have a preference for something that doesn't matter. It's my belief that most women have a preference, so it does matter to most women. Now how much does it matter and for what size depends on the women.
So, this question can be answered two different ways and still be correct?

However, I do not believe women's preferences are equally distributed among small, medium, and large. I believe given the choice, the majority of women would choose a man that is larger in girth, length, or both. But they are not willing to base a decision off this preference.

So, how does this all apply to me? Well, I would say I'm insecure about my size only if women has a preference for a large penis. If she prefers my size, why would I be insecure about it?

So rather than whine about it, I'm trying to do something about it. I realize, I can't change my size, but I can change the woman. Meaning if a woman has preference for a large penis, we can just go our separate ways.
Now how to go about getting this information has proven to be very difficult because women don't seem to be very honest about their preferences. Might this be contradictions the OP was speaking about?

Anyhow, any tips on how I might avoid women with large preferences?

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Edited 4/27/2008 2:23 pm ET by welp222
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Sun, 04-27-2008 - 6:20pm
Clearly,what is meant when a woman tells you that YOUR penis size matters to HER, is that she is telling you that
YOU DON'T matter to her, and you should move along because she already has.
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Sun, 04-27-2008 - 10:45pm

I think that's all part of the purpose of dating -- finding that right person.

To be honest, I've never met a woman or had a friend who said they ended a relationship based on penis size. Most women are looking for more from a relationship than just that -- which is what has been being said throughout this and similar threads.







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