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Size Matters
| Thu, 08-19-2004 - 8:37pm |
I have to be honest I read these posts alot and it is really for one reason. I want to reaffirm that size doesn't matter. It really seems like the politically correct thing to say it that it doesn't, but even to the woman that say it doesn't they seem sway toward that if given the choice they would choose above average over average. Well I'm 41, 6'1", 180 in great condition, I'm told good looking, father of 3, mostly unhappily married (more of a roomate and great mother to my children- she still looks great), 1000% faithful, employed, strong christian, financially in good shape, but only about 4.5" long and maybe 1.25" girth. Yes it works and is ready to go, but man it hurts to be this size. Everyday at the YMCA I do the heterosexual quick scan to see if maybe maybe I could to bigger than somebody else (we all do that), but it is rare. Bottom line is that is hurts, and as much as I try to be a good, tough, mans-man. I never really feel that way because I know I'm hung light. I know that even tough my wife tells me its fine and I know I'm suppose to believe it.... What really upsets me is that I can't change it. I know those male enhancement pills are lies and I know there is nothing that will give me the great feeling of knowing I gave my wife the great feeling that some of these 7"-10" guys could. Yes I do all the other things to try to satisfy her, but I know I can't do that fill-her thing. She had a big guy in her first husband (I saw a picture (of him naked) in a box she was tossing out when she moved here 11 years ago. Otherwise she would never mention that, but I can tell she tries not to make this matter, but the fact is it does matter. I know some of you will write and try to pick the chins of guys like me up and that sweet, but you really can't. Because the fact is size does matter and for those without the size we hurt. I am not a wuss I'm just hung like one. For as much pain as I have let this cause me over the years I worry the same about my little 5 year old son who I pray will not suffer from this as much as I have about this, but I suppose he will. I know there are worse things in life and this is small in comparason to many many other things, but I do wonder why not being hung well has to be a factor in what kind of man I am or what kind of man I feel like. I would love to be able to give my wife that full feeling.

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My dad's penis was larger than mine. Therefore, your son may NOT follow your body type.
Mac
I think that the message from most of the female posters is pretty clear: They appreciate large penises, but consider penis size only one of many qualities that makes a suitable partner. THat's it. Its very simple. Its not contradictory or an oxymoron or anything besides a simple straitforward opinion. If Miss Princeton enjoys her big batted, sperm spewing, urine spraying man machine then good for her. And if she thinks that penis size is not hugely important than accept that. The two opinions are not mutually exclusive.
-Phat
P.S. - Miss Princeton: tell your dude to sit down. If I'm at someone else's house and I'm afraid that I'll get sprayback (ie toilet is too low, or bladder pressure is high) then I sit down. It's not unmanly, it's just common courtesy. If urine is not all going into the toilet then it rusts the pipes and rots the floor and can wreck the paint and drywall. In some apartment buildings in Europe, men are contractually bound to go sitting down because it is such a maintenance problem. If I'm at my own house, than I just go outside since it saves on water and recycles nitrogen. Ah, the joys of country living.
PPS-Your guy might be urinating like a rusty pressure washer because of sex. Sex makes men have irregular urine streams. I have no idea why. There is a funny scene about that in the Jim Carey/Rene Zelweger movie "Me, Myself, and Irene" Or is it Ilene? Anyway, after sex is also a good time to sit down.
the argument is all "moot" really... if one side acts differently and knows what they are talking about then the other side would not feel insecure and not make continuous topics...just as I kind of said in my last post these topics pop up for a reason....there is a cause and effect
Simple really
The same goes for everything else in life. We like, or we prefer certain things. Sometimes it works out, sometimes it doesn't. We deal with it.
Funny thing I saw on a television show that basically talks about human sexuality. The host said that only 30% or less of men are happy about their size........interesting
I guess this can be true..... On a men’s Mb that I visit I have seen so many guys asking if the size they have is ok and majority of them fall in the average 5-6 inch range where majority of men are.
I believe that if someone meets someone they like, they would like that new person to be their preference and will do or say things to perpetuate this belief. Women are especially good at this.
I read an article from a pyschologist a fews year back that said something similar. They were catloging sexual preferences and as women got older and they noticed their sexual preferences started to change. So they asked some of these women what caused their preferences to change. Their response was "Well, that's what's out there at my age. Do I have any other choice"?
In past posts you described how much you like size and that's great. I happy you found someone that fits the bill. But then to come back and say it doesn't matter at all -- I felt that was disingenuous. If you had something like, "Yeah, I like 'em big, but it's not the most important thing in the world", then I would have never replied to your original message.
The bottom line for me is that we all come here to share information and, if we're lucky, get a few answers too. But if I feel I'm being misled, what's the point of posting here?
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