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Size Matters
| Thu, 08-19-2004 - 8:37pm |
I have to be honest I read these posts alot and it is really for one reason. I want to reaffirm that size doesn't matter. It really seems like the politically correct thing to say it that it doesn't, but even to the woman that say it doesn't they seem sway toward that if given the choice they would choose above average over average. Well I'm 41, 6'1", 180 in great condition, I'm told good looking, father of 3, mostly unhappily married (more of a roomate and great mother to my children- she still looks great), 1000% faithful, employed, strong christian, financially in good shape, but only about 4.5" long and maybe 1.25" girth. Yes it works and is ready to go, but man it hurts to be this size. Everyday at the YMCA I do the heterosexual quick scan to see if maybe maybe I could to bigger than somebody else (we all do that), but it is rare. Bottom line is that is hurts, and as much as I try to be a good, tough, mans-man. I never really feel that way because I know I'm hung light. I know that even tough my wife tells me its fine and I know I'm suppose to believe it.... What really upsets me is that I can't change it. I know those male enhancement pills are lies and I know there is nothing that will give me the great feeling of knowing I gave my wife the great feeling that some of these 7"-10" guys could. Yes I do all the other things to try to satisfy her, but I know I can't do that fill-her thing. She had a big guy in her first husband (I saw a picture (of him naked) in a box she was tossing out when she moved here 11 years ago. Otherwise she would never mention that, but I can tell she tries not to make this matter, but the fact is it does matter. I know some of you will write and try to pick the chins of guys like me up and that sweet, but you really can't. Because the fact is size does matter and for those without the size we hurt. I am not a wuss I'm just hung like one. For as much pain as I have let this cause me over the years I worry the same about my little 5 year old son who I pray will not suffer from this as much as I have about this, but I suppose he will. I know there are worse things in life and this is small in comparason to many many other things, but I do wonder why not being hung well has to be a factor in what kind of man I am or what kind of man I feel like. I would love to be able to give my wife that full feeling.

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You could not have a penis too small for me to want to date you. That is, if I wanted to date you, it would make no difference to me what you had hanging between your legs. Nada. Zilch. Could be just an inch long.
I have this feeling you think the women of the world are walking around smirking, "Hah! Cute guy, and a wonderful human being, but tiny penis. Can't date 'im." The full extent of my thinking about the whole thing would be, "Wow! Cute guy, and a wonderful human being, and I'm glad we're dating ... a happy bonus for me that he's well endowed to boot," ... pretty much what I say about my current bf. I'd be dating him regardless.
If you don't find that ongoing discussion makes you feel any better, at a certain point I really think you should just drop it and move on to different topics -- I'm sure it doesn't make sense to worry about what one cannot change. It's like me wishing I was 5'-8" -- doesn't make sense to devote a moment's worry to it.
I think I understand that part; however, there are positions that I thought were specifically designed for deeper and more enjoyable penetration for the woman, even with smaller penises involved anyway.
For those that have such size issues that want to avoid surgery and still be able to somehow enjoy the intimacy of satisfying intercourse, then perhaps these options are worth a try.
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Wonderful pics -- I've never really seen closeups like a couple of those before -- grainy but filled with passion and emotion. That one b&w one gives Robert Mapplethorpe a run for his money. Suffice it to say I am totally envious of your boyfriend, for two obvious reasons!
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