Is size or stamina more important?

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Registered: 12-29-2003
Is size or stamina more important?
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Mon, 06-14-2004 - 2:47pm
The often-asked question about penis size got me wondering whether stamina or ability to have intercourse for a long time is important to women. After all, what good is 9", if it's done and gone soft in three minutes?

How about it ladies?

Would you rather have 7-9 inches that lasts 5 minutes?

OR

5-6 inches that lasts 20-30 minutes?



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Registered: 03-27-2003
Thu, 06-17-2004 - 2:56pm
I have to agree with you, and give another vote for size. From my own personal experiences, I have enjoyed sex better with larger men. I actually had a long relationship with someone who was large in size but couldn't last more than a minute, but we worked on it, and if I gave him a bj before we had sex, then he'd last longer, it was no big deal. Stamina is something I think that can be worked on, but you can't change the size of someone's penis. It all comes down to preference, and I guess I just find a larger one more attractive. It's not something I would ever leave someone for; I have to admit my DH is average in size and stamina, but I fell in love with the whole package, so it really didn't matter.

 

 

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Registered: 12-29-2003
Fri, 06-18-2004 - 7:07am
Hi, honey, glad to hear it's going so well for you. I thought a while back you were expressing some concern about duration, so I'm glad that's doing fine.

I think an important point to make here is that while a man can't really change his size, there are ways to make him last longer. Quite apart from the obvious benefits to his partner, this extends his pleasure as well.

taoist.

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Registered: 05-03-2003
Fri, 06-18-2004 - 8:20am
Chalk up another vote for size.

My hubby now can last just fine but I don't feel it as well as I'd like and a little more size would be VERY nice! (he's about 4 inches erect)

In my past relationships I was used to much larger penises (and my ex husband was about twice the size of my current husband) and even though its not in vogue to say "size matters"....to me it does.

I love my husband and hes very good to me and my kids but...a little more size would be WONDERFUL.

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Registered: 06-11-2003
Sat, 06-19-2004 - 7:53am
Hi taoist. I would have to say size, ONLY because my ex's penis about the size of his thumb when erect. Sex was awkward. Any type of "in and out" rythem was out of the question. Now, my fiance is what would probibally be considered "normal" sized. 5-6 inches or so. And this size is just right for me.
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Registered: 11-12-2003
Sat, 06-19-2004 - 3:21pm
hi tao....it actually was my late husband who was not very long lasting...my current SO has tremendos stability and i find that thrilling :).

honey

    

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Registered: 06-20-2004
Wed, 06-23-2004 - 5:15pm
I have to say that for me, stamina is way more important than size. I used to masterbate with a very large dildo and it wasn't very pleasurable, hence, I don't use it anymore. Than I met my BF and we started having sex. He isn't small, but average (5-6 inches) and although a little more length and girth would be nice, we sometimes go for 30-45 minutes. Using different positions, we can go for a long time without getting bored and I LOVE it. I wouldn't have him trade stamina in for a bigger penis any day! Another vote for stamina!

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