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Registered: 08-18-2007
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Sat, 08-18-2007 - 2:52am
ladies, my man is pretty good in bed but I want to know how big should it be? he's pretty solid. around 7". Am I expecting too much?
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Registered: 03-31-2007
In reply to: spur2007
Sun, 08-19-2007 - 7:36am

Welcome to the board azprofessor. Thanks for sharing your experiences here.

While I think some women will have problems with a size to either extreme, there are so many other creative ways to have sexual enjoyment, size is not the determining factor of pleasure for most women. My personal experience has been that men with larger penises are able to provide less creativity, or put less effort into sexual pleasure, than those with smaller penises. While the woman may not have an orgasm during penetration, she will have a lot of sensations and remember that he has been there -- but that's not the same as pleasure she may feel from having an orgasm, or multiple orgasms that have been encouraged by a skilled lover.



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Registered: 11-30-2006
In reply to: spur2007
Mon, 08-20-2007 - 5:20pm
I think that you intended your post for spur 2007 and it came to my email instead.
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Registered: 08-04-2003
In reply to: spur2007
Mon, 08-20-2007 - 7:32pm

Average size is 5.1 to 6.2 inches in lenght and 5 to 5.5 in girth.


Carrie

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Registered: 02-28-2006
In reply to: spur2007
Mon, 08-20-2007 - 7:42pm
No reason I know of not to say that here, Carrie. You're only sharing your experience, and not using any TOS violating words in the process.

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Registered: 03-31-2007
In reply to: spur2007
Mon, 08-20-2007 - 10:06pm

Thanks for sharing your experiences with us Carrie.

I know a lot of women feel the same way, "It's not about size, it about knowing how to use what you've been given." I know I totally agree with you too.



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Registered: 12-12-2006
In reply to: spur2007
Tue, 08-21-2007 - 12:38am

I seriously have to question your "gravity" statement! If the blood vessels in your penis are working correctly, you could stand on your head, and you're not going to lose the erection, or part of the erection....until you're no longer aroused, either by ejaculating, or from neglect. When you're aroused, the blood rushes into your penis, and there are valves that close and stay closed until the arousal is over.

I've NEVER seen a man "lose" an inch because he was on his back! And I've seen my share of men.......on their back!

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Registered: 08-19-2007
In reply to: spur2007
Tue, 08-21-2007 - 1:35am
LOL...I guess I'm getting old. When I was in my 20s, no problem. But now that I am older, yes, indeed, gravity does take hold a little bit.
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Registered: 03-11-2005
In reply to: spur2007
Tue, 08-21-2007 - 4:15am
In my previous post I pointed out that DW loves IC with my 5 inch penis. In addition to IC a 5 inch penis is much easier for DW to do deep throat. Another advantage of a shorter penis.
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Registered: 04-21-2004
In reply to: spur2007
Tue, 08-21-2007 - 5:19pm

You wrote "ladies, my man is pretty good in bed but I want to know how big should it be? he's pretty solid. around 7". Am I expecting too much?"

I don't understand the question. If he's pretty good in bed and its 7", then I guess 7" is how big it "should" be! What other size could he be?

As for your expectations, are you saying you expected something bigger?

Penii come in all shapes and sizes, and people manage to please themselves on nearly all of them. My wife as had partners with penii that range from tiny to huge (I'm somewhere in the middle), and the only time that size made a difference was with the huge one. Even then, the apparent problem was that he didn't engage in any foreplay, but simply threw her legs up and started trying to cram his 10-12" monster in. As much as that sounds like a line from a bodice-ripper romance, she says it didn't do anything but hurt, so she rolled off th ebed and went home after about 5 or 10 minutes with neither of them satisfied.

Interestingly, she can take a toy larger than that, but we don't pull the toys out until she's ready and rarin' to go, if you follow my meaning.

FWIW, as a bi man, I've experienced a few penii myself, and I find the same basic principle applies. I've enjoyed a penis SUBSTANTIALLY larger than my own, but I've also had a surprisingly good time being penetrated by one much smaller. Basically, if the rest of the experience is great, size doesn't determine whether it was a good experience or not. It just determines how filled up I felt in the first few minutes.

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Registered: 05-11-2007
In reply to: spur2007
Thu, 08-23-2007 - 12:08pm

I assume the orginal poster hadn't seen many erect penises to question about one that is 7".

As far as the poistional variation of smaller penises my SO and I are very adventurous sexually and find that many positions are more than doable by us and he is slightly below the average length. He is also the best lover I have ever had -- more orgasms and stronger ones than I have ever had with men that were bigger. So size is definitely not an issue most of the time. Not if you really care about someone.