slapping a woman rear-or is it vagina?

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Registered: 01-05-2006
slapping a woman rear-or is it vagina?
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Thu, 03-09-2006 - 5:15pm

can't find a response to this in the site...

What is the meaning for a man to slapp a womans rear during intercourse? seeking clarity to confusion...

JudithS

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Registered: 01-07-2005
Sun, 03-12-2006 - 2:38am
Current man has slapped my butt a few times. S&M, Domination, "painful" sex or Bondage is not our thing. Honestly, the slaps don't hurt at all. Most of the time I am so 'into' what we're doing that I don't even feel it and it takes me a few minutes to realize "you just slapped me". They're not spankings - just one firm slap. He doesn't do it every time and most times it's just one slap during entire session. Whereas they don't hurt, they don't bother me. If pain was involved - they wouldn't happen, or the sex would stop as soon as he did it. Sorry I can't give you his meaning - it's not important enough to me to ask him. IMO, it's something he likes to do spur of the moment in the heat of passion. I take it as a sign that he's very happy at that moment. Again, for me it's not painful. No way do I believe pain should be come a part of sex.
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Registered: 11-13-2005
Sun, 03-12-2006 - 4:55am

some people like to have there rear spanked and there vagina spanked .I guess it is a fetish , they say that it feels good . I like it cause it makes me skin tingle and stuff but not hard enough to hurt. IF it hurts were is the pleasure? you know?

hailey

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Registered: 11-16-2005
Tue, 03-21-2006 - 11:56pm
i ask my men to do it because it makes me feel inferior in bed, and i like that.
im a huge I Love Lucy fan so i think thats what strated it LOL...its more of a man dominating me thing.
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Wed, 03-22-2006 - 7:14am

LOL.....I Love Lucy fan.


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Registered: 03-20-2006
Wed, 03-22-2006 - 7:55am

I like it. Sometimes it's just a Tap, sometimes it's a good make my butt red and hot spanking. Sometimes we don't. It has nothing to to with control in our sex. I do know that for some the whips and chains are about control but in our case it's about sensation. Sometimes I like the front spanked as well.

I have always thought that getting to the orgasim for a woman and even a man is like overloading the the electrical circuit and the orgasim is the Power surge that blows the breaker. A little pain just ups the current running thru the nerves. Sometimes I can't even feel the pain till later when my butt is red hot.

I actually have a sexy half dressed fairy tat on my ass that says "spank me!".

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Registered: 11-16-2005
Wed, 03-22-2006 - 10:28am
yup lucy was spanked when she was bad. the only way im bad is when i dont let him take off my clothes (we do that for fun LOL), but i like being spanked when im sitting on his lap when we are really making out LoL
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Registered: 03-22-2006
Thu, 03-23-2006 - 12:37pm
My wife likes to be spanked when we are doing it doggie style!
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Registered: 11-21-2005
Fri, 03-24-2006 - 9:08am
Well, you don't do it hard enough to sting, lol! Just make it tingle, and you dont' stop what your'e doing, you actually give her a little love slap while your'e making love to her (usually from behind). I think it gives the man a sense of power and the woman, like an, oooh, I AM bad sensation, along with a little tingle....my H likes it and so do I! Enjoy!
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Registered: 11-21-2005
Fri, 03-24-2006 - 9:19am
Yea, I do agree with that. Somtimes, it is so fun to be dominated in bed, and sometimes be the dominator. Like i.e., them holding your hands, or spanking or throwing you on the bed and madly ripping your clothes off, etc. LOL!! It's fun!
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Registered: 03-27-2006
Tue, 03-28-2006 - 2:16pm

I like being spanked.

Some people have said it stemmed from childhood-I was never spanked when I was little...hahhh, maybe that's why??