slapping a woman rear-or is it vagina?

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slapping a woman rear-or is it vagina?
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Thu, 03-09-2006 - 5:15pm

can't find a response to this in the site...

What is the meaning for a man to slapp a womans rear during intercourse? seeking clarity to confusion...

JudithS

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Wed, 03-29-2006 - 6:57am
I think u like what u like, ya know?? All this mumbo jumbo crap about childhood is just that. We're all adults now & we can make our own choices, ya know? I WAS spanked as a child, and I can tell you this, it sure wasn't fun OR enjoyable, LOL!!
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Tue, 04-04-2006 - 12:57pm
For months, my lover not-so-secretly wanted me to spank her during sex. I wasn't sure I was comfortable with it. Then one day, I just did it. Hard too. There was a nice sound to it. Smack! And it felt so good, for me, and for her. Yes, I felt like I was dominating her (something she definitely wanted) and I think for her the physical sensation heightened the intensity of the sex. We were standing up. I was behind her. When it was over, we laughed about it. So, I think - and others have said it too - that there's a psychological effect as well as a physical effect.
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Registered: 03-28-2006
Wed, 04-05-2006 - 4:08pm

To slap or not....where on the DW spread, Exactly: is the most sensitive to slap and using how many fingers or whole hand on her labi*/vulv*??? I noticed no one touched per ce, or slapped (pard the pun) that part of the anatomy in those posts....

thanks.

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Wed, 04-05-2006 - 5:58pm

No, that wasn't addressed on this particular thread but there's another thread that popped up recently somewhere on this board that does.

I'm not sure what one gets from this type of stimulation, I would assume a vibration, but personally, I have no desire to have my vulva tapped, slapped or rapped, with one, two or more fingers. Massaging and caressing works very well for me personally.




Edited 4/5/2006 6:08 pm ET by katmandoo2001
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Wed, 04-05-2006 - 9:51pm
Actually have had this happen to me... spur of the moment my butt got slapped while doing it from behind and it actually spices things up a bit. You'd be surprised. I laughed at first but then it just sort of became a regular thing.
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Thu, 04-06-2006 - 2:35am
I agree I was also spanked as a child and I didn't enjoy it then. But I do enjoy it now its all about experimenting and finding what makes us hot.
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Registered: 05-13-2005
Thu, 04-06-2006 - 6:49pm

My boyfriend spanks me when we are having rear-entry sex and it's very much a turn-on for both of us. Something about feeling that sting to my butt really gets me going. It makes me feel extra naughty!

~ Anna Helene

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Registered: 06-21-2005
Sat, 04-22-2006 - 3:47pm
I really like it when my husband gives me a slap on the rear when we are really going at it! Usually we have to have sex quietly because our bedroom is right next to our daughters' room and has thin walls. So when the rare opportunity to get kinky and get a little slap on the rear comes up it adds to the sex! At least that is my opinion of our sex.
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Sat, 05-06-2006 - 9:32pm

My husband swats my tush whenever it's within arm's reach, including during intercourse. It's just a fun thing that we do.

I don't know that I understand the original question, "what does it mean?" It doesn't mean anything, it's just for fun, like everything else we do during sex.

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Registered: 04-25-2003
Sun, 05-07-2006 - 6:30am
It does nothing for me until he gets me really worked up and in that "zone". At that point it is hot as hell and I love it. It also plays to that male ego and makes him think he has you and is in control. Do it - and love it. Linda