Sleep Teasing?
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| Thu, 06-14-2007 - 8:16am |
LOL. Okay I have heard of sleep walking, but sleep teasing? My BF will do things to tease me while he is sleeping. He plays with my boobs, or rubs between my legs. Last night he grabbed my hand (at 3:30am) and placed it on his hard on. I actually rubbed it for a little bit, but it was apparent that he was asleep. When I ask him about it the next morning he never remembers doing it, he doesn't even remember what he was dreaming about. He always tells me that if he starts doing it that I can wake him up and go at it, but I know he needs his sleep. Although one of these nights I might not be able to resist.
I'm a very light sleeper, so it always wakes me up. I also have quite a high libido, so it doesn't take much to get me horny. Hehe. At least it doesn't happen every night. It never happens on days that we do have sex. It's not a big deal, I was just wondering if anyone else has experienced this.


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It's the same thing as sleepwalking. He's asleep, and his subconcious is directing his movements. He's not necessarily "dreaming" about anything, and if he is, he won't remember it (just as most people don't remember most of their dreams). He's not "teasing" you.....at least not consciously.
If you do "take advantage" of the situation, he may wake up, or he may not. He may remember it the next day, or he may not.
He's not alone, many people do this or even stranger things in their sleep.
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My DH does some fairly odd things in his sleep when he is overly tired or stressed out. Unfortunately, none of them are sexual (LOL). He rarely remembers anything about what he has done.
I doubt that your guy would do the same in a tent with a buddy. I think the person would have to be sleeping in the same bed (or sleeping bag) with him, and I doubt that would occur.
I know you said he doesn't do this if the two of you have had sex that night. On the nights that he does do it, is he overly tired or stressed? Any triggers you can identify that might encourage his behavior?
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My hubby does that atleast once a week. I'm not sure if he would stop if I didn't do anything in response or not but I love to take care of him. So I usually spread my legs for him or let him suckle my breast then he'll get on top of me and go to town. Rollover and go back to sleep. It makes me really horny. I usually get up and go take care of myself in another room. Sometimes he remembers in the morning sometimes he doesn't. I'm sure he's dreaming about sex when he starts touching me. He's always horny.
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Sounds like fun :) I am sharing a bed occasionally with a new boyfriend myself. I hope he does that lol ... I can get it on half asleep and enjoy it then still go back to sleep.
Just hope that it doesn't bother you being woken up like that occasionally because the one guy that I did live with that did that woke me up almost every night. After a few months of that even though I was sleeping enough I felt sleep deprived from being woken up every night.
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He was actually awake once when he started "groping" me. And it was a great way to wake up. It was some very HOT sex that night. Mainly because we both wanted it so bad that we had to have it right there and then. Neither one of us were thinking about sleep that night.
It's not an every night occurrence, so I'm not feeling too sleep deprived.
Thanks for sharing.
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