Slut in the bedroom??
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| Tue, 06-15-2004 - 3:10pm |
A woman considered sexually promiscuous.
A woman prostitute.
A slovenly woman; a slattern
All negative, IMO.
I love and enjoy sex to it's fullest potential. Considering the fact that this is the twenty-first century, I think that it's about over due that we come up with a better associated word other than "slut" for a women who enjoys sex(particularly sex within a monogomous relationship). It's very offensive that women who enjoy sex are compared with a person who has little or no self-respect and who is most likely not respected by the men she's having sex with.
Additionally, not all women have to act like sluts(servicing men). I believe that a woman can be extremely sexy and sexual just by being themselves. Which may be the furthest thing from being slutty. It may be she has a sweet, natural, demeaner.
Edited 6/15/2004 4:19 pm ET ET by franciesfancy

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I understand that society's light use of the word has made it non-offensive, and I didn't mean to come off as stuck-up about it...I just think it would be nice to define a sexually uninhibited woman, with something classier. Get my drift?
Edited 6/15/2004 4:05 pm ET ET by franciesfancy
I agree that our language tends to forgive male promiscuity and punishes women. We need to change that but it starts with US!
Edited 6/15/2004 6:55 pm ET ET by katmandoo2001
Leticia
I believe that jeephead was referring to his wife in a loving way, he obviously admires her freedom of sexual expression, openness, being uninhibited with him (positive and pc terms) and he "playfully" refers to her as his little slut. This is normal fun for lots of couples...including the woman!
It's this way for my hubby and me. In real life, I'm very professional all day long, dress like a lady, go to church on Sundays, I'm a wonderful mother, etc. etc. Between he and I, lovingly and between just the two of us, it's great to let my hair down and let my "inner slut" come out. It's all in good fun, it's healthy, and no harm or insult is meant by it...between two people who get that and enjoy that. :) It's very intimate to be able to share this "other side" with your loved one. Many people are multi-faceted and being allowed to be a "slut" when you want to be can be very freeing.
Leticia
My opinion is that men do want a "slut" in the bedroom
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