Slut in the bedroom??
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| Tue, 06-15-2004 - 3:10pm |
A woman considered sexually promiscuous.
A woman prostitute.
A slovenly woman; a slattern
All negative, IMO.
I love and enjoy sex to it's fullest potential. Considering the fact that this is the twenty-first century, I think that it's about over due that we come up with a better associated word other than "slut" for a women who enjoys sex(particularly sex within a monogomous relationship). It's very offensive that women who enjoy sex are compared with a person who has little or no self-respect and who is most likely not respected by the men she's having sex with.
Additionally, not all women have to act like sluts(servicing men). I believe that a woman can be extremely sexy and sexual just by being themselves. Which may be the furthest thing from being slutty. It may be she has a sweet, natural, demeaner.
Edited 6/15/2004 4:19 pm ET ET by franciesfancy

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But I don't call my DH derogatory names in the bedroom so I wouldn't appreciate a man who used them to describe me either. I'm a healthy, sexually mature woman, so, IMO, no other label is necessary.
I don't like the implication that men and women who choose to use it playfully are somehow unhealthy and sexually immature.
Leticia
I was referring to my physicality.....being physically healthy and sexually mature, and that's why I enjoy sex. And it's my belief that MOST women do.
Women who enjoy sex are not the anomaly that the label infers. It was not a comment on the emotional or mental sexual maturity of anyone else.
The word, for me, is offensive and always derogatory. I have already acknowledged that some women feel differently.
Edited 6/17/2004 4:22 pm ET ET by katmandoo2001
Glad it was just a misunderstanding.
>>I was referring to my physicality.....being physically healthy and sexually mature, and that's why I enjoy sex. And it's my belief that MOST women do.<<
I totally agree with that. My older sister is the only one I know of right now who doesn't, but she is also dealing with depression and the two seem to go hand in hand for her.
>>Women who enjoy sex are not the anomaly that the label infers. It was not a comment on the emotional or mental sexual maturity of anyone else.<<
I never took it that way, but I guess I see how you could see it that way. Basically, are you saying that since most women aren't considered sluts, that a slut in the bedroom would be unusual and that's why you don't like it?(besides the negative meaning for you)
>>The word, for me, is offensive and always derogatory. I have already acknowledged that some women feel differently<<
I wasn't arguing that. I can accept that you don't like it.
Leticia
That's what the OP was trying to get across.
I'm going to assume that you haven't had any real sluts in your bed, Jeep, and only real lascivious-women. Which is why it is so perplexing that you wouldn't make the connection that real-non-sluts are capable of unihibited, down and dirty sex. If anything, wouldn't you think that a slut should aspire to be more like the women who were in your bed, including your SO, rather than the other way around? ;-)
I undertsand it, even if I don't agree with it LOL.
Leticia
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