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| Fri, 12-22-2006 - 1:15am |
I have a friend that until recently I thought to be promisquous. However, after she told me that she had a "great" weekend, sleeping with three different guys in three days, I couldn't help but question what I thought. The first guy she is in a "relationship" with. (the relationship is just for sex as far as she is concerned. Im not sure of his view) The second guy is a co-worker. Christmas party aftermath. The third is an ex she has been on and off fighting with for past year. She had a hotel room and mentioned to her ex she was alone in the room. He just shows up un-announced and the deed was done. Im not sure what to think of this. If it was a story I heard of someone else I would probably say "what a slut". Am i over re-acting or is she slutty?
Thanks in advance for any comments.

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I suppose if she does this regularly then yeah, plenty of people would call her a "slut". But that's just a label and a matter of opinion too. Some would say that she's assertive and in control of her sexuality. And of course others say "Hey, what is she was a guy? Guys are cool if they get three women in one weekend". Mind you, I'm not sure that I'd be overly impressed with a guy that regularly bagged three women every weekend myself - he'd be sailing close to "male slut" territory as far as I was concerned.
What you think is really entirely up to you though. You have your boundaries. She has hers. Although you might disagree on where those boundaries are, it doesn't necessarily mean that she is a "bad" person. If you want to be her friend I'm not sure that friends view one another so negatively either. After-all, "slut" has plenty of negative connotations.
What is the statue of limitation for bagging a guy? 3 different guys in 9 days, 3 different guys in 3 weeks. Where does the gal go from slut to sexual, 3 different guys in 3 months? I never read the book so I don't how the score is kept.
Either be the ladies friend or leave her alone.
Rich
Rich, good to the last drop
Hmmm........I never read that book either, maybe it's doing 3 guys in 3 minutes???
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