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| Fri, 08-19-2005 - 5:47am |
I know that I am going to get flamed for this, but here it goes....My boyfriend's penis is very small. Maybe 3" long when erect, with a small circumfrence. We have been together for 8 months now, and have tried position imaginable. We have wonderful foreplay, and the orgasms are great. But intercourse is very unsatisfactory for me, and I really miss the feeling of being "full". I can hardly feel his penis inside of me. I know that I sound shallow, but this is how I feel. Any suggestions on a position that will help accomodate a small penis?

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you enjoy the foreplay and the orgasms, you like and care for this guy? where is the problem? get a toy have him incorporate that in your sex life. it is the man, guy attacted to that penis that matters not the other way around. my dh is not all that large but geeze he satisfied my needs we also use a toy or two...when i get that urge to be filled (he gets turned on by that)i take the toy in my hand he knows what to do.
kate
TM,
You've gotten some good advice here (other than Tom's which was kind of stupid if he wasn't joking).
Ultimately, he has what he has and you have what you have. Either you can live with it or not. You mentioned that you enjoyed the orgasms from oral, but were not satisfied during intercourse...that may just be the way it is. Some women don't ogasm at all, or if they do, it's a rare occasion. I've found it's always best (in all areas of life not just sex) to focus on what you have rather than what you don't have.
Peace.
Scott.
I am so glad that someone feels the same way that I do. Although I am in a realtionship with my first partner, I KNOW he is small. Honestly, about 3 1/2 inches erect. I have had oral sex with men that have a much larger penis. I urge & desire to know what it is like to be with someone bigger, the fullness has to be great! The curiousity is killing me, I want the experience.
Knowing where you are coming from, I wanted to share that he and I had anal sex for the first time last night and I LOVED it! It gets me very aroused and it feels full in that area, LOL! As for vaginal sex and getting the fullness feeling, don't think you or I can achieve that with our current partners. Hang in there. I am! But as someone else mentioned, men with a small penis are aware of it and try to please their partners in other ways. Very true, but at least you have orgasms, you are a step above me. Be thankful that you can at least achieve that!
By the way, I feel him better when I am on top! The doggystyle position does nothing for me, however many people on this site recommend it, they need to understand we are talking about a very small man! It slips out and I can not even feel him that way. Good luck babe!
Either accept him as is, continue to work around his size, accept that you will never have that fullness with him or move on. His penis will never grow so either you can accept that or you can't.
It's been 8 mos. now and it's still an issue so I doubt you're going to be able to let it go....UNLESS he means more to you than that.
I was once with a less than well-endowed man, here's a position that worked really well for us.
Have him sit on the couch or your bed or whatever, as long as he's sitting with his back against something and his legs extended. Straddle him from on top and over his thighs. Then, this is something he has to do, have him grab your hips and pull/push you away from him and back against him as fast and hard as he can... it's not "riding him", because it's impossible to duplicate from the woman's side of things... it's literally pushing and pulling your body against his penis in a different way. Nice for clit stimulation, and it's an entirely different sensation for you both as far as sex goes.
Absolutely Marshmallow. I'm pretty close to your bfs size (I've been blessed with 3.5 inches) so I've had lots of expereince at this. Try this: While on your back place a pillow under your hips so your vulva is angled upwards. After he enters you bend your knees and pull your knees up towards your chest with your hands. If possible place your knees over his shoulders. This positions allows for maximum penetration depth and works great for partners of shorter endowed guys. I learned this from a book on sex positions that was labeled "The best position for couples with a small penis." And it is.
And you are right - doggie does not work - slips right on out. Frustrating! Make sure he's giving you alot of great oral sex. It is a big equalizer. And as another female poster wisely noted she and her shorter endowed DH use a large sex toy when she needs deeper penetration. I have found this to be a need most of my lovers have expressed too. Some have told me my penis length makes them feel "very loved but ... hungrier" so we've used a love toy when she needs to feel full. So there you go. Give em a try.
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