Small penis

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Small penis
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Fri, 08-19-2005 - 5:47am
I know that I am going to get flamed for this, but here it goes....My boyfriend's penis is very small. Maybe 3" long when erect, with a small circumfrence. We have been together for 8 months now, and have tried position imaginable. We have wonderful foreplay, and the orgasms are great. But intercourse is very unsatisfactory for me, and I really miss the feeling of being "full". I can hardly feel his penis inside of me. I know that I sound shallow, but this is how I feel. Any suggestions on a position that will help accomodate a small penis?
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Tue, 09-06-2005 - 11:38am
No need to thank god, it's a well known fact that women are more frivolous then men. ;)
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Tue, 09-06-2005 - 12:38pm
A "well known fact", huh? Well I guess I'll have to disagree with that opinion, Wary. And here I thought this size issue always came down to preference, not shallowness.


Edited 9/6/2005 1:01 pm ET ET by katmandoo2001
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Tue, 09-06-2005 - 1:17pm

I agree with Hunny. All the apparatus and vibes isn't going to increase the size of his winky. Be careful before you get involved long term that you can be happy with everything that is him.

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Tue, 09-06-2005 - 1:53pm

well it can come down to both shallow and or preference which size threads usually are

but i have to disagree with your opinon in another thread about why men want a large penis......its not because they want to "show off in a locker room"

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Tue, 09-06-2005 - 4:33pm

Yes, but both sexes can be frivalous, as we all know.

And I'm aware that bragging rights in the locker room isn't the ONLY reason men want bigger penises but it's certainly one of them. Some men are very concerned about measuring up to other men.




Edited 9/6/2005 4:43 pm ET ET by katmandoo2001
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Wed, 09-07-2005 - 12:27am
Well the difference between shallow and preference is, partly, the way it is said. And, yes, I do believe women are more frivolous than men even though they like to believe that they are not. This, of course, is not true for every women, but listening to women over the years, reading message boards, usenet, and BBS systems ( for those of you who remember these ), it has been my experience that women tend to be more shallow than men.
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Wed, 09-07-2005 - 12:57am

And are we a tad bit biased, perhaps? LOL!

Believe me, I've overheard some pretty frivalous and shallow male conversations in my time, as well! We all have, I'm sure. But I would never jump to the conclusion that men are necessarily MORE shallow than women based on THAT!

At the end of the day, I think it's what people DO that matters. People can and do say all kinds of stupid things that they don't truly live, believe or feel, and for all kinds of reasons.




Edited 9/7/2005 2:21 am ET by katmandoo2001
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Wed, 09-07-2005 - 4:02am
I can only offer my opinions based on my experience. You can try to tell me that 2 + 1 = 4, but my experience tells me otherwise. Are men shallow? Yup and can be overtly so, but I believe women are more shallow, they're just more sneaky about it.
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Wed, 09-07-2005 - 2:29pm
Oh, stating opinions is fine, Wary. That's what these boards are all about. But stating an opinion as a "WELL KNOWN FACT" isn't though. That was my whole point.


Edited 9/7/2005 2:31 pm ET ET by katmandoo2001
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Wed, 09-07-2005 - 4:01pm

as a guy i can say that locker room theory is just too funny

guys don't walk around the locker room naked they wear towels around their waist.......... only old guys walk around in the nude. And guys don't sit around talking about who is bigger

plus you have to think outside the box (outside ivillage) on this... guys care because women care there are many sites where you will see women talk about it and guys see it and worry that they don't fit the "thick as a coke can" and "long as a redwood tree" characteristics that some women state as “godly”

on the contrary to what you have said in another thread about you not needing to worry about saying something to offend "average" guys.... you're wrong even the "average" guys worry just look at the achieves there are many threads where a perfectly normal average guy who is around 5-6" is asking if he is small or will be laughed at/talked about

why? Because he sees what other women say and notices that he does not fit that "desired" size they talk about in pleasing a women in bed