Small penis

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Registered: 08-19-2005
Small penis
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Fri, 08-19-2005 - 5:47am
I know that I am going to get flamed for this, but here it goes....My boyfriend's penis is very small. Maybe 3" long when erect, with a small circumfrence. We have been together for 8 months now, and have tried position imaginable. We have wonderful foreplay, and the orgasms are great. But intercourse is very unsatisfactory for me, and I really miss the feeling of being "full". I can hardly feel his penis inside of me. I know that I sound shallow, but this is how I feel. Any suggestions on a position that will help accomodate a small penis?

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Wed, 09-07-2005 - 5:18pm

I guess I will have to repeat what I've already said on the subject. Are bragging rights in the locker room the ONLY reason men care about size? No. Is it one of many reasons? Yes.

I've heard this from too many men over my lifetime. I'm not making this up. Men DO care how they measure up to other men. Some men more than others. Why, I'm not sure. Maybe it evens the score when you aren't as athletic, as tall or as rich as the next guy. Who knows? It all seems to be about competition though and that starts on the playground.

And it's not as simple as strutting around with your penis hanging out in the locker room. That's not even necessary. It's about how a larger penis seems to affect male confidence...with women AND with other men.

And you said yourself that "SOME women" are talking about size being important. But you seem to ignore that there are MANY of us who don't feel that way at all! IF you were truly concerned about women's opinions on size, then you would count ALL of them as legitimate and important, wouldn't you? That's why I believe that SOME men are more concerned about measuring up to other men than what women think on the subject.




Edited 9/7/2005 5:43 pm ET ET by katmandoo2001
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Registered: 09-16-2005
Sat, 09-17-2005 - 1:06am
Been there- you can't expect to live your life sexually unfulfilled. Sure vibrators and stuff are temporary fixes but eventually you will get tired of that and seek out other means of satisfation OR worst case- live the rest of your life wondering. There ain't nothing like the real thing!
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Registered: 09-16-2005
Sat, 09-17-2005 - 1:47am
I agree with you! It is all about preference and not shallowness. If you ask a man would he want a woman w/ 32a cup or 44d which do you think he is going to pick? PREFERENCE.But at least a woman can get a boob job!

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