Small Penis Help!

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Registered: 12-06-2008
Small Penis Help!
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Sat, 12-06-2008 - 6:55pm

My friend and I had sex for the 1st time last night and I realized he has a small penis. O my goodness I was shocked. After my initial shock I was able to make it work. Missionary style is a no-no however doogie style and him standing while I am on my back with legs on him works perfectly. Are there any other positions which would aid in me feeling him?


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Registered: 05-14-2008
Sun, 12-07-2008 - 12:03am
This is a hard question to answer.
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Registered: 03-31-2007
Sun, 12-07-2008 - 8:33am

Welcome to the board, Terry.

It sounds like the position you used was a modified missionary position since you were lying on your back. You could try doing a similar style with you on your stomach or hands/knees and him standing next to the bed.

Have you tried woman on top (WOT)? Sometimes that can work well too.

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Registered: 09-05-2008
Sun, 12-07-2008 - 5:56pm

Just out of curiosity, why were you shocked? Men and women come in different sizes below belt. Unless you're new to the game, surely you must have already seen some variation. Just as I'm sure you've seen women with absolutely tiny breasts, there is no doubt there must be men out there that are just as under endowed. It's just the way it goes.

If you put too many of your eggs into one basket, you may be disappointed if it doesn't work out. I guess do what they do in the financial market, diversify your interests. :)

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Registered: 12-28-2007
Sun, 12-07-2008 - 8:12pm

I went from someone very large for 20 YEARS....who was a JERK to me.

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Registered: 08-12-2002
Mon, 12-08-2008 - 1:10am
Modified versions of missionary should work quite well.

 


 


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Registered: 03-31-2007
Mon, 12-08-2008 - 5:43am
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Registered: 08-12-2002
Mon, 12-08-2008 - 12:06pm
I was starting to get hints about them, so I thought I'd better get around to it lol.

 


 


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Registered: 06-04-2004
Mon, 12-08-2008 - 3:54pm
As a man who is not particularly well endowed, I can tell you that its in the positioning. When DW and I first had sex, she is a larger woman (BBW) and I am not endowed with a huge tool, we discovered that our best positions for penetration and pleasure for her are a modified missionary position with her legs up on my shoulders with me straight up and down. The other is Doggy where I am standing on the floor and she is on her hands and knees on the edge of the bed. She also puts her head and chest into the bed so her but is up high. This position I can usually make her have a very good orgasm. The other position it take some work to get angled correctly but when I do she squirms with delight and also orgasms. The key there is getting her butt up in the air a bit so I can hit her G spot. Another way to achive this is when in the modified missionary I get a hold of her ankles hold them open wide and slowly push them back towards her head. This makes her back curl up and then I can start hitting her G Spot. She however cannot hold this very long before she starts hurting but its a good finisher after she is already close to cumming.
Now 10 years later, my DW had a hysterectomy and now I am too long for her. I have had to learn all over again and I still have trouble hitting her spots since they all moved. Missionary now has problems where I bottom out in her and it causes her pain. So I have had to take a more shallow stance. Doggy now is the best since I can drive into her hard and I hit her butt before I hit the top of her vagina. She enjoys that a lot since she likes a little spanking and doing it that way provides her with both sensations.
We have had to evolve over the years and learn how to use what I have as well as her. I can say that we have had 10 years of great sex even with our deficiencies!



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Registered: 12-21-2006
Mon, 12-08-2008 - 5:21pm
Any form of sexual intercourse which cause your bodies to be 90 degrees to one another during coupling should cause the deepest penetration. This can be accomplished by laying side by side with one of your legs over his *like two open pairs of scissors) and the two of you facing each other. In this way, no matter what he has to offer, you will be getting it all.
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Registered: 10-15-2006
Mon, 12-08-2008 - 10:51pm

I was starting to get hints about them, so I thought I'd better get around to it lol.


Hints you say?


LOL


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