SO is against anal, but I really want it

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Registered: 09-09-2005
SO is against anal, but I really want it
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Fri, 02-10-2006 - 2:47pm

Ok I'll try to keep it short. I've been with my SO for a several years now. About 3 months ago, for the first time, I bought a toy (a 7.5" and average width vibrator). She assumed that I bought the vibrator for her (which is partially correct) but at the same time I've wanted to have anal sex or anything anal for a long time. So when I bought the vibrator I couldn't wait to try it out. After a few tries I finally got the entire thing penetrated and it felt so good, I came within a minute.

But the problem I have is, even way before I bought the vibrator she explained to me very clearly that she hated anything and everything that has to do with anal. Her main argument is that there's too much bacteria and she said something about e coli (biology major...) which I have no clue what it is, but I'm assuming its not good. Anyway, I've been using the vibrator for my own anal stimulation more than on her for her vaginal stimulation, but she has no clue. An on a side note its funny in a way because after only a few tries I got the entire thing inside me, but to this day my SO still can't fit the whole thing inside. She gets pretty deep, about 5 or 6" but it hurts too much. (She's a virgin)

Does anybody have any suggesstions at all about how I can get my SO to engage in anal play with me? It would be a dream come true if she would use the vibrator on me.

cl

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Registered: 05-14-2005
Sat, 02-11-2006 - 1:31pm
Dw's vibe I used is her smallest and the first we puchased. She doesn't use it anymore since she has bigger and better things. The other posts' are right about the bacterial isue. We never touch anywhere on our body's after any anal play. Not without a thorough hand washing and using that anti-bacterial stuff.

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