Why do you keep getting interrupted? I really don't understand your post. You're upset because you think he lied about finishing. How do you know he lied? Maybe you were just extra well lubricated, or maybe it was just pre-ejaculate.
So when he went to work he forgot to say goodbye? And somehow you're tying that to the fact that you THINK he's lying to you about ejaculating? And I for sure don't understand what you mean by "nothing"? You had sex on Wednesday, but you got interrupted...and again today, and interrrupted again. Being interrupted will certainly spoil the mood!
I have no idea what the problem is, or what you THINK is a problem.
I think that you are thinking about this WAAAAAAAY too hard.
So what if the sex has not gone as planned for one week out of the 208 weeks or more that you've been together? Everyone is allowed a break now and again. Maybe he had a stressful week or had something on his mind? He's allowed that once in a while. If the sex went badly for a month I would start wondering but all this has only happened over 4 or 5 days.
And forgetting to say "goodbye" once is not a major problem. Relationships change and people naturally change - you might find that he starts saying Goodbye less but that doesn't mean that he doesn't mean it. In fact, he might mean it more cause he's only saying it because he REALLY means it instead of thinking that he HAS to say it because you expect it.
As for cumming? Odd but don't get hung up over it. Maybe he felt embarrassed, maybe he really didn't cum, maybe he got embarrassed and thought that the people that interrupted you could hear? Who knows? Odd, but again, it happened once. Let it go.
thanks so much u guys for ur help....i now realize i definately was over analyzing the situation. he called me last night while he was at work and apoligized for the way he acted cuz he was tired and cranky, so that made me feel better. i also forgot to mention that he jus started workin the graveyard shift and sunday he did a double so didnt come home till 4pm. i have no idea why i didnt take that into consideration to why hes been the way he has. also what kept interuppting us, were 2 annoying friends who kept comin over unexpectedly.
Why do you keep getting interrupted? I really don't understand your post. You're upset because you think he lied about finishing. How do you know he lied? Maybe you were just extra well lubricated, or maybe it was just pre-ejaculate.
So when he went to work he forgot to say goodbye? And somehow you're tying that to the fact that you THINK he's lying to you about ejaculating? And I for sure don't understand what you mean by "nothing"? You had sex on Wednesday, but you got interrupted...and again today, and interrrupted again. Being interrupted will certainly spoil the mood!
I have no idea what the problem is, or what you THINK is a problem.
I think that you are thinking about this WAAAAAAAY too hard.
So what if the sex has not gone as planned for one week out of the 208 weeks or more that you've been together? Everyone is allowed a break now and again. Maybe he had a stressful week or had something on his mind? He's allowed that once in a while. If the sex went badly for a month I would start wondering but all this has only happened over 4 or 5 days.
And forgetting to say "goodbye" once is not a major problem. Relationships change and people naturally change - you might find that he starts saying Goodbye less but that doesn't mean that he doesn't mean it. In fact, he might mean it more cause he's only saying it because he REALLY means it instead of thinking that he HAS to say it because you expect it.
As for cumming? Odd but don't get hung up over it. Maybe he felt embarrassed, maybe he really didn't cum, maybe he got embarrassed and thought that the people that interrupted you could hear? Who knows? Odd, but again, it happened once. Let it go.
I agree with the other posters, you are way over analyzing everything.
Working graveyard plus a double, no wonder the guy wasn't with it.