As the others have said, it's different for every guy ... and for the same guy at different times. There have been times that my DH can barely stay hard, or goes soft just after ejaculating. Then there are other times that he's able to stay hard, even after ejaculating, for a good bit of time.
That depends on the man but it's all normal.
There is nothing "normal" about things like this.
Welcome to the board, Terri.
As the others have said, it's different for every guy ... and for the same guy at different times. There have been times that my DH can barely stay hard, or goes soft just after ejaculating. Then there are other times that he's able to stay hard, even after ejaculating, for a good bit of time.