SOME QUESTIONS FOR EVERYONE

iVillage Member
Registered: 05-17-2006
SOME QUESTIONS FOR EVERYONE
44
Fri, 10-27-2006 - 3:24am

doing an American version of an ivillage UK questionnaire. let's see if we're alike!

http://messageboards.ivillage.co.uk/n/mb/message.asp?webtag=iv-ukrlsex&msg=33175.1&x=y

What is you gender?

How old are you?

At what age did you lose your virginity?

How many male sexual partners have you have?

How many female sexual partners have you have?

Have you ever cheated?

Have you ever had a one night stand?

Have you ever had vacation sex?

Do you have sex during your or your partner’s period?

What is your sexual fantasy?

What is your pubic hairstyle?

How often do you groom you pubic hair?

Given a choice, what activity would you choose over having sex?

Do you prefer oral or penetrative sex?

How long does it take you to orgasm?

How many orgasms do you usually having during sex?

How many orgasms are enough to satisfy you?

Do you ejaculate (including females)?

How long do your lovemaking/sex sessions usually last?

How long do you like a lovemaking/sex to last?

How often do you masturbate?

What toy do you use for masturbation?

How many orgasms do you achieve before you stop masturbating?

Have you ever had sex with someone of another race or from another country?

If you have sex with a celebrity, who would it be?

If you could have sex with someone without anyone ever finding out, who would it be?

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-22-2005
Mon, 10-30-2006 - 7:05pm

What is you gender? Female

How old are you? 27

At what age did you lose your virginity? 17

How many male sexual partners have you have? 10?

How many female sexual partners have you have? None yet!

Have you ever cheated? With someone, never on someone.

Have you ever had a one night stand? Yep

Have you ever had vacation sex? Yep

Do you have sex during your or your partner’s period? Have before, not with DH

What is your sexual fantasy? 3some including hubby and another M or F

What is your pubic hairstyle? Trimmed

How often do you groom you pubic hair? Couple times a week.

Given a choice, what activity would you choose over having sex? Nothing!!

Do you prefer oral or penetrative sex? Yes.

How long does it take you to orgasm? 5-15 mins.

How many orgasms do you usually having during sex? 2-3

How many orgasms are enough to satisfy you? 1

Do you ejaculate (including females)? No

How long do your lovemaking/sex sessions usually last? 20m - 1 hour

How long do you like a lovemaking/sex to last? 20m - 1 hour

How often do you masturbate? 2-3/week

What toy do you use for masturbation? Hands, vibe, the other end of DH's razor in the shower.

How many orgasms do you achieve before you stop masturbating? usually 2

Have you ever had sex with someone of another race or from another country? Oh yeah!!

If you have sex with a celebrity, who would it be? Not sure.

If you could have sex with someone without anyone ever finding out, who would it be? My boss' husband.

iVillage Member
Registered: 06-24-2006
Mon, 10-30-2006 - 9:14pm

What is your gender: Female

How old are you: 40

At what age did you lose your virginity: 16

How many sexual male partners have you had: 2

How many sexual female partners have you had: none (not interrested)

Have you ever cheated: No

Have you ever had a one night stand: No IC but other things, so that would be 2

Ever had vacation sex: yes

Do you have sex during your period: We did a few times when I was married

What is my sexual fantasy: That would be a MMF

What is your pubic hairstyle: shaved

How often do you groom your pubic hair: once per week

Given a choice what activity would you choose over having sex: Lots of cuddling, kissing and touching

Do you prefer oral or penetrative sex: Oral

How long does it take you to orgasm: Depends, but average is 5 minutes

How many orgasms are enough to satisfy you: usually one

Do you ejaculate (including female): No

How long do your lovemaking sessions usually last: when I was married would be around 15-20 minutes

How long would you like it to last: Alot longer..lol

How often do you masterbate: pretty much everyday, and sometimes have gone up to 4

What toy do you use for masterbating: Fingers and my new Vibe

How many orgasms do you like to achieve before you are satisfied: Just 1

lust-1.jpg image by Case_8290

 

iVillage Member
Registered: 01-07-2005
Mon, 10-30-2006 - 11:14pm

What is you gender: Female

How old are you: 40ish

At what age did you lose your virginity: 19

How many male sexual partners have you have: 4

How many female sexual partners have you have: 0

Have you ever cheated:no

Have you ever had a one night stand: two

Have you ever had vacation sex: Nope (mostly due to lack of vacations)

Do you have sex during your or your partner’s period: Yes

What is your sexual fantasy: Being taken from behind @ kitchen counter

What is your pubic hairstyle: Trimmed

How often do you groom you pubic hair: monthly or sooner

Given a choice, what activity would you choose over having sex: Sex!

Do you prefer oral or penetrative sex: Both

How long does it take you to orgasm: seconds (even suprised me); usually minutes

How many orgasms do you usually having during sex: used to be 3, but lately I've been losing count after 6-7

How many orgasms are enough to satisfy you: 6-7 does the trick very nicely

Do you ejaculate (including females): Yes and he loves it

How long do your lovemaking/sex sessions usually last: Sex=5minutes; lovemaking= hours

How long do you like a lovemaking/sex to last: until I'm wasted

How often do you masturbate: 2-3x weekly

What toy do you use for masturbation: Either fingers, Rabbit &/or vibrator

How many orgasms do you achieve before you stop masturbating: one

Have you ever had sex with someone of another race or from another country: Yes

If you have sex with a celebrity, who would it be: Val Kilmer or Ed Norton

If you could have sex with someone without anyone ever finding out, who would it be: Gay male friend




Edited 11/5/2006 2:53 pm ET by unoshopper
iVillage Member
Registered: 09-16-2006
Tue, 10-31-2006 - 12:01am

What is you gender? Male

How old are you? 18

At what age did you lose your virginity? Same as above. 18. Best birthday present ever =P

How many male sexual partners have you have? 0

How many female sexual partners have you have? 1

Have you ever cheated? No

Have you ever had a one night stand? No

Have you ever had vacation sex? Sex on vacation? Yes.

Do you have sex during your or your partner’s period? Not to my knowledge >.> No.

What is your sexual fantasy? My sexual fantasy? Well...here's the short version. Smoky jazz club, walk through gardens, romp in the grass in the early hours.

What is your pubic hairstyle? Untrimmed

How often do you groom you pubic hair? N/A

Given a choice, what activity would you choose over having sex? Sex wins. Every time.

Do you prefer oral or penetrative sex? Yes. Wait wait...is that not a valid answer? =P Oral, as we can both enjoy it easilly.

How long does it take you to orgasm? Depends. Me and my hand can be done in a few minutes. Otherwise I prefer to delay it for significantly longer. So, between half an hour and um...jeez... 6 hours? That's not all penetration though. During actual sustained penetration, between 15 and 30 minutes.

How many orgasms do you usually having during sex? 1, but often 2.

How many orgasms are enough to satisfy you? 1. Or as many as she can muster =P

Do you ejaculate (including females)? Yes. I'd be worried if I didn't

How long do your lovemaking/sex sessions usually last? Well, unfortunately they've been few and far between. As a consequence... our average time is about 4 hours of lovemaking. 25 minutes of penetration I'd say.

How long do you like a lovemaking/sex to last? See above answer =D

How often do you masturbate? Twice a week, sometimes a couple more, but I prefer to masturbate less if I can handle it. Sex is that much better when I don't

What toy do you use for masturbation? Nothing

How many orgasms do you achieve before you stop masturbating? Just the one

Have you ever had sex with someone of another race or from another country? Nope

If you have sex with a celebrity, who would it be? Well. Um. Celebrities? Never found them real enough to fantasise about really. That said... Carmen Electra >.>

If you could have sex with someone without anyone ever finding out, who would it be? I wouldn't. I'd much rather be faithful.

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-29-2003
Tue, 10-31-2006 - 5:34am

First, I'm going to answer for myself, and in a second post , for DW.

What is your gender?
Male

How old are you?
54

At what age did you lose your virginity?
19

How many male sexual partners have you have?
0

How many female sexual partners have you have?
18

Have you ever cheated?
technically, Yes.

Have you ever had a one night stand?
Not really. I've always made an effort to see her again.

Have you ever had vacation sex?
Yes, lots. Vacation in Cozumel two years ago. But the bed wasn't as comfortable as ours at home.

Do you have sex during your or your partner’s period?
All the time. We just pull out the towels during her period.

What is your sexual fantasy?
None , really.

What is your pubic hairstyle?
untrimmed.

How often do you groom you pubic hair?
Wash with soap or shampoo once or twice a day. What more "grooming" do you need?

Given a choice, what activity would you choose over having sex?
None.

Do you prefer oral or penetrative sex?
For me, intercourse really gets me off. I love to do oral on her, but oral on me doesn't do much for me. I like a little as foreplay now and again, but since she doesn't like it much it rarely happens.

How long does it take you to orgasm?
At least 15 minutes. Sometimes I don't orgasm at all. Because it takes me so long, a lot of our "quickie" sessions just involve digital on her.

How many orgasms do you usually having during sex?
Usually one, sometimes none. When conditions are really good, I can control my ejaculations and have 2 or 3 in one session.

How many orgasms are enough to satisfy you?
One is good. Two or three is fantastic.

Do you ejaculate (including females)?
I control my ejaculations and ejaculate about once a week.

How long do your lovemaking/sex sessions usually last?
"Quickies" with digital only are about 5-8 minutes. When we have intercourse we usually take about 30 minutes.

How long do you like a lovemaking/sex to last?
We fit our sessions into the time available, so I'm happy with the duration.

How often do you masturbate?
Never

What toy do you use for masturbation?
N/a

How many orgasms do you achieve before you stop masturbating?
N/A

Have you ever had sex with someone of another race or from another country?
Chinese (3), Venezuelan, Armenian

If you have sex with a celebrity, who would it be?
I honestly am only interested in making love with DW, as no one else could even begin to compare.
Having said that, I think Salma Hayek is incredibly attractive, and she seems to be a really good person. It's too bad she's so short.

If you could have sex with someone without anyone ever finding out, who would it be?
By asking this question, I assume you mean," If there are no negative consequences, who would you have sex with?". As someone has said, "I would know", so you really can't have no negative consequences.
However, I know what you're looking for is fantasy and speculation. As I said above, I'm not interested in anyone sexually other than DW. I will confess, however, to some curiousity about other women. I teach adults, and most of them are latinas ages 20 - 45 and many are very attractive. I've had some students that I was curious about and I might like to see them nude, but I couldn't imagine actually having sex with any of them.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-30-2005
Tue, 10-31-2006 - 11:34am

What is you gender?
Female

How old are you?
More than 40 and less than 50.

At what age did you lose your virginity?
15

How many male sexual partners have you have?
13

How many female sexual partners have you have?
I have had 2 females kiss me and lick me, but I have never reciprocated.

Have you ever cheated?
Not in a marriage. Yes while dating.

Have you ever had a one night stand?
Not by myself.

Have you ever had vacation sex?
No.

Do you have sex during your or your partner’s period?
Sometimes. Not our favorite so it is a factor in when we do it.

What is your sexual fantasy?
Having all my old boyfriends watch me do it and see how sexual I have become!

What is your pubic hairstyle?
Trim.

How often do you groom you pubic hair?
About monthly.

Given a choice, what activity would you choose over having sex?
A really, really good massage.

Do you prefer oral or penetrative sex?
Penetrative.

How long does it take you to orgasm?
With the right guy and right stimulation, 3 minutes or less.

How many orgasms do you usually having during sex?
One.

How many orgasms are enough to satisfy you?
One.

Do you ejaculate (including females)?
Not that I or any partner has noticed.

How long do your lovemaking/sex sessions usually last?
15-20 minutes unless we are really trying to lengthen it out.

How long do you like a lovemaking/sex to last?
15 minutes or less to my first orgasm (I am impatient).

How often do you masturbate?
Maybe once a week.

What toy do you use for masturbation?
A small vibrator.

How many orgasms do you achieve before you stop masturbating?
One.

Have you ever had sex with someone of another race or from another country?
No.

If you have sex with a celebrity, who would it be?
Ben Afleck (sp?)

If you could have sex with someone without anyone ever finding out, who would it be?
My first boyfriend.

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-26-2004
Tue, 10-31-2006 - 6:16pm

I finally found some free time to answer these questions.... ;-)

What is you gender?
Female

How old are you?
48

At what age did you lose your virginity?

16

How many male sexual partners have you have?

5

How many female sexual partners have you have?
None

Have you ever cheated?

No.

Have you ever had a one night stand?

Yes, one intentional.

Have you ever had vacation sex?

I'm sure you mean with a stranger....so, no.

Do you have sex during your or your partner’s period?
Men have periods? ;-) But of course....it relieves cramps, makes you feel extremely desired...and lots more.

What is your sexual fantasy?

My most constant one throughout my life touches a little on your question above about vacation sex--it is to meet a beautiful man while I'm away by myself on a beautiful island....and have beautiful sex and then I leave never to see him again.

What is your pubic hairstyle?
Natural, but slightly trimmed (nothing short).

How often do you groom you pubic hair?

Once a month, but I do shave around the perimeter often. ;-)

Given a choice, what activity would you choose over having sex?
....can't think of one.... ;-) But I would have to say the caveat to that would have to be "loving" sex....because I would choose just being wrapped in the arms of a man who loves me, over having sex with just a man you find attractive--even if the sex is great.

Do you prefer oral or penetrative sex?

Intercourse.

How long does it take you to orgasm?
Depends on the amount of mental stimulation I received prior. I have even had orgasms without any physical stimulation at all. But anywhere from one minute to ten is average.

How many orgasms do you usually having during sex?
Two the most.

How many orgasms are enough to satisfy you?
Whoa...loaded question. ;-) It all depends. I know for me there are two different types of "satisfaction": One that satiates the "libido" (and that happens on the first orgasm always)...and then the one that satisfies the "physical" (and I've gone as high as near twenty).

Do you ejaculate (including females)?
No.

How long do your lovemaking/sex sessions usually last?

Average is 20-40 minutes.

How long do you like a lovemaking/sex to last?
30 minutes.

How often do you masturbate?
Often.

What toy do you use for masturbation?
Dildo, but I do not use it often.

How many orgasms do you achieve before you stop masturbating?
I'm slowing down....most is 4.

Have you ever had sex with someone of another race or from another country?
No.

If you have sex with a celebrity, who would it be?
I drive a hard bargain....there aren't too many celebs that I have found attractive over the years....however there have been a few (but none in a long time.) I finally found one or two that I would even consider: Olivier Martinez ("Unfaithful") and Raol Bova ("Under the Tuscan Sun")

If you could have sex with someone without anyone ever finding out, who would it be?
See above... ;-) Seriously though, I'm not a very good liar. I would have to live with me...it has nothing to do with anyone else "finding out." Perhaps that's what I find so "mind boggling" about cheaters....how they "live" with themselves, ***particularly** when the other partner "doesn't know."




Edited 10/31/2006 7:26 pm ET by rain_dancer_iam
Imagination is more important than knowledge." (Albert Einstein )
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-27-2006
Wed, 11-01-2006 - 3:20pm

doing an American version of an ivillage UK questionnaire. let's see if we're alike!

http://messageboards.ivillage.co.uk/n/mb/message.asp?webtag=iv-ukrlsex&msg=33175.1&x=y

What is you gender? Male

How old are you? 50

At what age did you lose your virginity? 49

How many male sexual partners have you have? 0

How many female sexual partners have you have? 1

Have you ever cheated? No

Have you ever had a one night stand? No

Have you ever had vacation sex? No

Do you have sex during your or your partner’s period? No

What is your sexual fantasy? Making love to my gf on a secluded beach.

What is your pubic hairstyle? Trimmed to prevent gf from gagging on hairs during BJ's.

How often do you groom you pubic hair? Once a month.

Given a choice, what activity would you choose over having sex?

Do you prefer oral or penetrative sex? My GF and I like both oral and intercourse.

How long does it take you to orgasm? 5 to 10 mins, though sometimes longer when we make it slow and sensual.

How many orgasms do you usually having during sex? 2 to 3

How many orgasms are enough to satisfy you? 2 to 3

Do you ejaculate (including females)? yes

How long do your lovemaking/sex sessions usually last? an hour or more including foreplay

How long do you like a lovemaking/sex to last? half hour to an hour, but it varies.

How often do you masturbate? twice a week, but it varies.

What toy do you use for masturbation? Me, my hand, my gf will integrate her vibrator alone and when we are together.

How many orgasms do you achieve before you stop masturbating? One or two

Have you ever had sex with someone of another race or from another country? No

If you have sex with a celebrity, who would it be? Gwyneth Paltrow

If you could have sex with someone without anyone ever finding out, who would it be? no answer

iVillage Member
Registered: 11-02-2006
Thu, 11-02-2006 - 6:07am
1]m 2]57 3]16 yrs. old 4]11 women 5]yes cheated 6]yes] 7]no vacation sex 8]yes 9]seducer 10]natural 11]hunting 12]penetrative 13]io min 14]2 or 3x 15]2 or 3 suits fine 16]ejac? yes17]3 hours+ 18] 3 hours+ 19] 20]1-2X 21]no toy 22] no races or foreign 23]Diane Keaton is sexy to me but I would not. 22] nobody else besides girl friend
iVillage Member
Registered: 11-02-2006
Thu, 11-02-2006 - 5:21pm

What is you gender? Male

How old are you? 61

At what age did you lose your virginity? 23

How many male sexual partners have you have? 0

How many female sexual partners have you have? 20+

Have you ever cheated? yes

Have you ever had a one night stand? yes

Have you ever had vacation sex? yes

Do you have sex during your or your partner’s period? yes

What is your sexual fantasy? Threesomes and group sex

What is your pubic hairstyle Ungroomed

How often do you groom you pubic hair? never

Given a choice, what activity would you choose over having sex? Watching others have sex

Do you prefer oral or penetrative sex? penetrative

How long does it take you to orgasm? sometimes very long

How many orgasms do you usually having during sex? one

How many orgasms are enough to satisfy you? the next one

Do you ejaculate (including females)? yes

How long do your lovemaking/sex sessions usually last? one hour or longer

How long do you like a lovemaking/sex to last? depends on the mood but sometimes a quickie is nice

How often do you masturbate? once a month

What toy do you use for masturbation? none

How many orgasms do you achieve before you stop masturbating? one

Have you ever had sex with someone of another race or from another country? yes, many times

If you have sex with a celebrity, who would it be? the question doesn't interest me

If you could have sex with someone without anyone ever finding out, who would it be? No longer of any interest