Something I can do

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Registered: 09-01-2004
Something I can do
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Wed, 09-01-2004 - 3:27am
I have been married for 4 years. I have two children.

My problem is that I can only climax when he is on top. If I am on top, or doggy style, nothing happens for me. If he rubs me nothing happens. And once my husband went down on me for over 30 minutes and nothing happened.

I want to have more excitement. anyone know what I can do?

Thanks

Daisy

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Registered: 07-22-2004
Wed, 09-01-2004 - 4:50am
Have you been able to orgasm at all through masturbation? If so, was it through a penetrating toy or through clitoral stimulation? This helps to answer whether you can orgasm or not from other than just man on top.

Not very common to be able to orgasm at all through intercourse of any kind while not being able to have one through foreplay. It may be possible to improve technique during both foreplay and with other positions during intercourse. There are certain Kama Sutra positions that target the female's more sensitive pleasure spots during intercourse. Worth looking up, in the meantime here's some variations:

http://magazines.ivillage.com/cosmopolitan/sex/no/articles/0,,544153_633458-1,00.html

If he's one of those very experienced guys who doesn't really need other tips with his techniques, then I'm not sure what you're able to do about it other than enjoy what you know you can.

Last time I read something like this, it involved the woman simply feeling more comfortable psychologically/emotionally through the natural position. Sex always involves that state of mind area as well as physical pleasure, so that may be worth thinking of too.

You'll get great ideas on this message board. Good luck, purple! :)

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