something i've NEVER been asked to do...
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| Tue, 07-31-2007 - 10:24am |
I've been going out with my boyfriend for only about a month and a couple weeks. We have been having sex for a few weeks and 2 weeks ago he asked me to, how you say... "toss his salad"... this makes me VERY uncomfortable, like I have a fear of doing it. He's telling me I better get over that fear. Some ex girlfriend did it to him and he likes it A LOT. I just don't think I can do it, I just wanted to know how many people do that. Is it a common thing? I mean I have honestly NEVER been asked to do that. Also anal sex, I just can't do that either. He put his fingers in there, but it felt like I was going to have to go to the bathroom...yeah...anyway... I'm starting to think I can't handle him sexually...we have sex a lot, but he says he needs more sex and also for me to get over my fear of licking his @$$hole. Yuck its was even hard for me to type that. I need advice big time.
Thank you.

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You go girl! Glad to hear that you stood up for yourself and realized that there are many men out there that would be lucky to have you!
Im 110% out of the relationship. Thank goodness.
Whats a facial?
It does sound like you are better off being out of this relationship.
A facial is when a man cums on your face.
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worst case scenario if you are going to do it make sure you are under the influence of something, LOL
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I had that same thought in my head - if we broke up then I would have felt very uncomfortable, and disgusted in myself for letting him get me to do it.
I'm not sure how long he was with her, he had been in 2 year and a half relationships, so Im assuming it was one of those.
After he asked me to do it to him, I asked him why. He said because it feels so good to him. I said so someones done it to you? He said yes, an ex girlfriend. He also said she put a dildo up there too....which kinda freaked me out...quite a bit.
He has never done it to me, but he also wanted me to rub it and put my fingers in ... he did that to me without me asking/telling/knowing he was going to. He did it and it felt awful and i told him to stop, he did but was like you don't like that?? i was like no it feels like I have to umm yeah....go to the bathroom..
anyway...Im through with him. One month and hes telling me to do something and freaking out over stupid stuff and demanding and controlling....DONE i tell ya! and so much better off. So relieved!
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