something to knock him off his feet!
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something to knock him off his feet!
| Wed, 05-21-2008 - 11:30pm |
Ok so heres the deal, I'm really trying to do something special for my fiancee to knock his socks right off.

Sierra, if you have any fantasies that you can play out with him, that can be a great way to knock his socks off, especially if you can really let yourself go and get into the fantasy.
If you can get his mind working overtime before he gets to touch you, that's usually good too. One of the ways I've done this is by planning a special evening, and letting him know about it along the way. Like before he leaves for work in the morning, I give him a bit of a hint of what to expect that evening, and then I feed into it throughout the day during phone calls (email or texts would work also if you have that option). Preparing and serving a meal is another way to drag that anticipation out (although I find this is often the time that we cave!). When he arrives, be wearing something sexy -- it can even be one of his shirts, or something light with little to nothing under it. Have him be part of the food prep, and try to make the food light and fun, maybe something the two of you can sort of feed each other every now and then. (If he needs to shower before desert, make sure you have that worked into the plan too.) Have the mood already set prior to him arriving. You know your guy and what he would like, but music, lighting, wine .... usually work. Be open to having sex somewhere different than the bedroom if that's possible (kitchen counter tops, dining room table, living room floor, backyard deck, etc.).
If the two of you don't have a place where you can carry out this romantic and sexy evening, then using the same kind of anticipation building tactics, you can take your act out with you. Plan to meet him for lunch or go out to dinner. Doing things like the panty drop (go to the ladies room, remove your panties, and place them in his hand or pocket when you return) can get him going ... or you could go commando and let him know about it along the way. Again, you don't want him to be able to touch you (at least not too much), but you do want his mind to be working over time, knowing what's in store for him. If you really want to build him up, think about going out dancing or for a drink after dinner. (Keep the tease going.) Go with what feels good when you're on your date, which might even mean having some form of parking lot sex. The key here is to make it different and unexpected if at all possible (without ending up in jail, LOL).
Another possibility is to do a lap dance or striptease for him. That takes some prep time on your part, but is something you can pull off on the spur of the moment when the mood strikes you.
Have fun with whatever you decide to do .... and feel free to return and let us know how things went ;-)
OT: Can I ask a favor of you? I have a terribly difficult time reading that light pink text, especially when it's typed in regular size font. Would you consider making it larger, darker, or a different color, since I read all of the posts on the board?