songs and virginity

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songs and virginity
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Thu, 04-20-2006 - 6:19pm
What do you think would be a good song to loose your virginity too? What did you loose yours too? My boyfriend and I both feel as though we are ready to have sex. We are both virgins, and want it too be special. Do people have songs like that? And what are some good ones? Thank you!
Melissa

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Thu, 04-20-2006 - 7:20pm

We didn't have music playing but even if there was music playing, I wouldn't have been paying any


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Thu, 04-20-2006 - 11:56pm

Sex to lose your virginity to? Honey, if you're both virgins, you will be so busy fumbling around and trying to figure out what to do, there could be a marching band in the bedroom with you, and you wouldn't see them or hear them. The idea is to be concentrating on each other, not what music is playing!

If losing your virginity isn't special enough....then you've been reading too many romance novels. First time sex, even if you're NOT a virgin, is usually awkward, uncomfortable, and not that great, because you both are new at it. Rather than worry about music, make sure you both have an idea of what you're supposed to do.....and that means there is a lot more to sex than putting a penis in a vagina.

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Fri, 04-21-2006 - 5:30am
cocteau twins -- 'heaven or las vegas' or 'ten calendar cafe' (i think i got the names right); sade is always a favorite as well as marvin gaye
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Fri, 04-21-2006 - 6:50am
No music when I lost my virginity. But I have sometimes put Enigma on in the background during sex.

 


 


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Registered: 09-17-2005
Fri, 04-21-2006 - 7:39am

"What do you think would be a good song to loose your virginity too?"

Well, hopefully it's going to last longer then one song!

Seriously though, it depends if you want romantic songs or sexy songs. My fiance and I have made up playlist of all our favorite songs... one is called the Happy Soundtrack which is all upbeat and fun songs, the other is the Sleepy Soundtrack which is all laid back and relaxing songs and the third is the Sexy Soundtrack which we obviously put on when we're getting busy. But honestly, we don't even hear it when we put it on. I'll remember about 10 seconds of the first song just as we put it on and then when we're finished and cuddling and I've come back to reality, I realize how many songs have passed and I don't even remember hearing them.

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Fri, 04-21-2006 - 8:29am

I don't like to remember losing my virginity, not a very pleasant experience and it put me off IC for a long long time.

BUT, a few months later I had a great sexual (but no IC) experience with boyfriend at the time to "Lets Wait a While" by Janet Jackson, well the whole album actually, plus others but that song still sends a shiver down my spine now. Saying that, the person concerned is really gross now after all these years so I remember him as he was about 18 years ago!!!

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Fri, 04-28-2006 - 1:10pm
In response to what music you would have playing when you lose your virginity. I wouldn't have been hearing it anyway. It is true that is more to sex than just having intercourse. Slow, sensuous foreplay is wonderful, fun, exciting and a turn on for both the man and the woman. I am a guy who was involved with a friend for a while after she and her husband divorced. We didn't actually have intercourse right away, but when we finally did when we were together at my apartment, it was very good after wonderful foreplay and I lost my virginity to this friend at the age of 49, and when it did happen, I was glad it was with her because it made it more special. Different situation obviously and we are no longer involved in the FWB but we are still friends and what we shared makes our friendship that much more special. Patrick
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Fri, 04-28-2006 - 1:47pm

"Stop in the Name of Love"
"I Want Your Sex"
"Hole in the World"
"Nothing's Gonna Stop Us Now"
"Losing My Religion"
"I Can't Get No, Satisfaction"
"Goodbye My Friend"

....in that order tee hee

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Fri, 04-28-2006 - 5:54pm

You forgot *Tonight's the Night* by Rod Stewart.


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Fri, 04-28-2006 - 7:06pm
Usually when me and my sc are doin our thing we dont be hearing nothing cuz we kinda get caught up in the moment and tune the music out. But when we do have the slow music playing to get me mostly in the mood, it would mostly be some R. Kelly(the best is 12 Play track 1,2,4,11&12). Some Keith Sweat is good and you cant forget Jodeci, well atleast we never do. That kind of music usually get us going, but like i said between my moaning and his heavy breathing, it all just overpowers the music and makes it sound like a bunch of noise lol. Hope those songs help though.

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