Sore?

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Registered: 04-20-2007
Sore?
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Mon, 04-23-2007 - 10:40am

My SO and I can only have sex once or twice a day no more then twice usaully after the first time she complains about being sore. What can I do to prevent the soreness? Also have any other women experinced this?

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Registered: 12-12-2006
In reply to: mr_niceguy2007
Mon, 04-23-2007 - 10:47am
Usually soreness is caused by dryness, lack of lubrication. That can be from lack of foreplay, or just simply that she's not able to produce enough lubrication on her own, particularly the second time. Buy some KY or other sexual lubricant and use that, and see if it helps.
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Registered: 03-31-2007
In reply to: mr_niceguy2007
Mon, 04-23-2007 - 10:52am
Depends on wear she is sore. It could be lubrication, from you bumping her cervix, or from having too much pressure on her legs. If she feels more of a raw or rubbed feeling, then add a lube. If she feels sore from you bumping her cervix, try different positions that won't allow you to hit it. If her legs are sore, try a spooning or T position.


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Registered: 04-20-2007
In reply to: mr_niceguy2007
Mon, 04-23-2007 - 10:57am

She is very wet I dont ever have to use lube unless its anal it more of the cervix we have tried many positions but when fully penatrated I always seem to hit her cervix

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Registered: 03-31-2007
In reply to: mr_niceguy2007
Mon, 04-23-2007 - 11:08am
Then you need to be more careful and not thrust as hard.


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Registered: 04-20-2007
In reply to: mr_niceguy2007
Mon, 04-23-2007 - 11:25am

She is usually the one thrust when I hit her cervix she says it brings her great pleasure but she doesnt like the sorness after so women it hurt them but it brings her pleasure. does it hurt you also? is that normal for her to like it but other women it hurts during sex hitting there cervix?

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Registered: 03-31-2007
In reply to: mr_niceguy2007
Mon, 04-23-2007 - 12:13pm

I think bumping the cervix hurts all women - just some women like it. It also depends on how hard or frequently you hit it.

Personally, I like it, but it can become painful. If I'm sore, we just use a position that doesn't cause as much contact, or we do WOT so that I can control the activity.



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Registered: 04-20-2007
In reply to: mr_niceguy2007
Mon, 04-23-2007 - 12:30pm

I know she likes it sometimes she grinds so hard it seems like it makes me sore also. I was going to ask you since you have been with larger guys what type of condom did they use I have magum xl and its still to tight and doesnt get down the whole shaft?

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Registered: 03-31-2007
In reply to: mr_niceguy2007
Mon, 04-23-2007 - 12:34pm
Remember how you said you hoped you could learn something from me (being my age).... well, I think I have seen about 3 condoms in my life. STDs and such were not a big deal when I was young and single. Maybe some of the other members will have suggestions for you.


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Registered: 04-20-2007
In reply to: mr_niceguy2007
Mon, 04-23-2007 - 12:37pm

Wow I would have loved to be in those days condoms ruin the experince IMO lol what do you know I learned something ;)

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Registered: 08-16-2006
In reply to: mr_niceguy2007
Mon, 04-23-2007 - 1:10pm

( I saw your question in taboos ). You need to ease up on the battering ram treatment-Stalion!. Continueing to hit the cervix, on purpose it appears, seems excessive and bulli-esh to me.

If you're having to bang her that hard to get her off, your not putting the stimuation where she needs it. I not only can't O when I've been rammed that hard, it ends the encounter. Neither of gets off and I'm the one who can't stand or lie strait for a few hours afterwards. Needless to say, he doesn't get it again for a while ( until he's fully remorsefull of the pain he's caused me ).

Also, would it be so bad to give her a break every once in a while. Twice a day sometimes ( like Honeymoon, Vacation, weekend getaway )is most pleasant and enjoyable. All the time tho I'd get burned out. Maybe your expecting her to put out similar to a machine rather than a human body.

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