Sore?

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-20-2007
Sore?
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Mon, 04-23-2007 - 10:40am

My SO and I can only have sex once or twice a day no more then twice usaully after the first time she complains about being sore. What can I do to prevent the soreness? Also have any other women experinced this?

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iVillage Member
Registered: 12-25-2006
In reply to: mr_niceguy2007
Mon, 04-23-2007 - 1:52pm

If she's the one thrusting (WOT?), then she has control of how deep the penetration is. If she enjoys the sensation of you bumping her cervix (I'm in agreement with her, BTW, just don't hit it too hard), then she may have some soreness afterwards. Also if it's twice a day, she might think about limiting the cervical stimulation to only one of the encounters.

And, yes, getting to have sex w/o condoms was wonderful back in the day! lol











iVillage Member
Registered: 04-17-2007
In reply to: mr_niceguy2007
Mon, 04-23-2007 - 8:56pm
I WISH.....HA HA....SERIOUSLY THOUGH, JUST USING THE USUAL LUBRICANT'S DON'T HELP?
iVillage Member
Registered: 01-17-2007
In reply to: mr_niceguy2007
Thu, 04-26-2007 - 10:29am
Dryness is usually the problem when you become sore, so use a water based lubricant. It also could be in the foreplay. You could try stimulating her more.
iVillage Member
Registered: 04-20-2007
In reply to: mr_niceguy2007
Thu, 04-26-2007 - 10:38am

I do use lubes and make sure she is very wet before she is still sore after

iVillage Member
Registered: 03-18-2007
In reply to: mr_niceguy2007
Sun, 04-29-2007 - 9:13pm

"My SO and I can only have sex once or twice a day no more then twice usaully after the first time she complains about being sore. What can I do to prevent the soreness? Also have any other women experinced this?"

I'm almost always sore because I like vigorous, passionate sex. If you want to prevent the woman you're with from becoming sore, you can be gentle and take it easy, but what fun would that be? ;-)

iVillage Member
Registered: 04-29-2007
In reply to: mr_niceguy2007
Sun, 04-29-2007 - 11:23pm
About Magmums being too small, have you ever tried having her wear a female condom? Or, if your relationship is stable enough, you can try to find another form of birth control.

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