Soreness after sex?
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Soreness after sex?
| Sat, 05-26-2007 - 6:20am |
hi hi,
I'm wondering if any of you tend to feel a little sore after sex? I have that problem after sex with my husband. Our sessions are usually quite short and his penis is not very big so I can't understand why.
I never had sex with anyone else before, so I had assumed it was just me. But recently I got involved with another guy (ok I'm having an affair... but that's a separate story). With him, we try all kinds of stuff, his penis is bigger and we tend to go at it much longer. Yet I never have the problem of soreness.
Does it have to do with how aroused/ lubricated I am? Anyone has similar problems?

Yes, it has everything to do with how aroused and well lubricated you are (and that has nothing to do with either one's size, either!)
Arousal is mental as well as physical. Physical (foreplay) is very important, but if you're not there mentally......you aren't properly aroused, and lubrication begins when you ARE aroused.
Affairs are always more exciting (until they're exposed), and therefore mentally arousing...and if your enamorata is taking time for foreplay, you're much more aroused than you are with your husband.
Talke to your husband about more foreplay, and try using a sexual lubricant.....that's what they're made for.
>>>Does it have to do with how aroused/ lubricated I am? Anyone has similar problems?<<<
I would say it has everything to do with that. You probably not turned on enough to get wet when you have sex with your husband, and when you're with the other guy it's new and exciting and you're enjoying it of course so since you're more excited you become wetter.
Buy some lube and use it with your husband.