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| Mon, 08-20-2007 - 11:17pm |
I'm seeing a man 16 years older than I am and he is a fabulous lover. He is adventurous, but hesitates to do the one thing I truly love. I want him to spank me while we are having sex...especially when he is taking me from behind. Any suggestions on how to peak his interest?

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Have you told him how much you enjoy it and how much you want it?
I would have to say, just tell him! Maybe
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Welcome to the board thekitten71.
I'm not sure why you say he hesitates. Perhaps he doesn't know that you are interested in this and is afraid he will hurt you. If you're comfortable with dirty talk, that's a great way to let him know you want to be spanked. You could ask him to spank you or if he spanks you lightly, you could encourage him to do it more and/or harder.
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I have to agree with Misty's suggestion. My wife loves to be spanked but I had never done that before. She asked me to do it lightly, then a little harder. The reaction I got from her was all I needed to be sure that it was something she did enjoy. Now she will deliberately be a "brat" at times knowing she's going to get a good spanking.
It doesn't do much for me to spank her, but she loves it, I love her, so she gets a good and red bottom whenever she wants. :-)
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