Spanking

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Registered: 08-20-2007
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Mon, 08-20-2007 - 11:17pm
I'm seeing a man 16 years older than I am and he is a fabulous lover. He is adventurous, but hesitates to do the one thing I truly love. I want him to spank me while we are having sex...especially when he is taking me from behind. Any suggestions on how to peak his interest?

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Registered: 03-08-2004
In reply to: thekitten71
Tue, 08-21-2007 - 6:42am

Have you told him how much you enjoy it and how much you want it?

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Registered: 11-15-2006
In reply to: thekitten71
Tue, 08-21-2007 - 7:41am

I would have to say, just tell him! Maybe



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Registered: 03-31-2007
In reply to: thekitten71
Tue, 08-21-2007 - 9:55am

Welcome to the board thekitten71.

I'm not sure why you say he hesitates. Perhaps he doesn't know that you are interested in this and is afraid he will hurt you. If you're comfortable with dirty talk, that's a great way to let him know you want to be spanked. You could ask him to spank you or if he spanks you lightly, you could encourage him to do it more and/or harder.



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Registered: 10-04-2006
In reply to: thekitten71
Tue, 08-21-2007 - 11:30am

I have to agree with Misty's suggestion. My wife loves to be spanked but I had never done that before. She asked me to do it lightly, then a little harder. The reaction I got from her was all I needed to be sure that it was something she did enjoy. Now she will deliberately be a "brat" at times knowing she's going to get a good spanking.

It doesn't do much for me to spank her, but she loves it, I love her, so she gets a good and red bottom whenever she wants. :-)


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Registered: 04-09-2003
In reply to: thekitten71
Tue, 08-21-2007 - 12:13pm
I think I speak for most guys when I tell you this,... if I were doing you doggie, and you moaned the words "spank my ass", I would love slapping your bottom!!!
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Registered: 03-31-2007
In reply to: thekitten71
Tue, 08-21-2007 - 4:26pm
Welcome to the board good_hands, and thanks for joining in.


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Registered: 08-20-2007
In reply to: thekitten71
Thu, 08-23-2007 - 11:48pm
Thanks for replies. I've certainly expressed my desires. He's newly-divorced, after 30 years with a an nonexistent lover. He's a classic southern gentleman and thinks movies, spanking, etc. is uncivilized. He so enjoys playing and is so willing to try new things, he finds the spaking idea demeaning to ME. Quite sweet, quite wrong. Can I help him over his preconceived notion?
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Registered: 08-20-2007
In reply to: thekitten71
Fri, 08-24-2007 - 12:17am
Have you thought of spanking him playfully and giving him a mischievous look? He might need a little encouragement to have fun. Sounds like he was pretty repressed in his last relationship.
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In reply to: thekitten71
Fri, 08-24-2007 - 6:53am
Welcome to the board foogowee. Thanks for joining in.


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Registered: 02-28-2006
In reply to: thekitten71
Fri, 08-24-2007 - 7:05am
Here's a link: Domination for Nice Guys that you might find it helpful to share with him.

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