Speaking up and Talking Dirty
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Speaking up and Talking Dirty
| Fri, 07-18-2008 - 11:08am |
Hey everyone......
Thanks to anyone who reads this and to anyone who can offer me any kind of advice or opinions.....
Ok, so my boyfriend has hinted to me a couple times in the past and recently again that he would like me to talk dirty to him in the bedroom.....now, i WANT to do it, and I can think of what I want to say in my head while we are having sex.....BUT, I just can't get the words to come out of my mouth!

I would say start off practicing out of the bedroom first. Maybe in person, over the phone, through text messages, email etc. and see how that goes. I would say try to relax and get comfortable. We all worry about saying something silly or crazy. But it's just you and him. You stated you are able to tell him what feels good and so on. Start from there, tell him to take that p_ _ _ __, harder, faster, elaborate on his penis, describe it, how much you love it, how wet you are
In the heat of the moment I was talking real dirty to my boyfriend at the time and apparently I shocked him so badly he stopped dead in his tracks and stared at me for a couple of seconds, it took even longer
I find the easiest way for me to talk dirty is to let the things I'm thinking just slip out of my mouth. Otherwise, I feel rehearsed and start to giggle. So, if I'm thinking "that feels good", I let it out instead of just thinking it. With practice, it gets easier, and nastier, LOL.
Here are some links you might find helpful too:
The Do’s and Don’t of Dirty Talk (Tracey Cox walks you through the process)
http://love.ivillage.com/lnssex/sextaboos/0,,traceycox_c0pnkb69,00.html
Talk Dirty To Me
http://love.ivillage.com/lnssex/sextaboos/0,,drpatti_2zpq,00.html
Dirty Talk: Encouraging Erotic Discussion
http://love.ivillage.com/lnssex/sextaboos/0,,drpatti_8xb,00.html
Bad Libs: The Good Girls’ Guide to Talking Dirty
http://love.ivillage.com/lnssex/sextaboos/0,,9j7q,00.html