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Speaking of Stretched Out...
| Mon, 07-11-2005 - 5:43pm |
I was with a man for three years and never had a problem with sex but now my new boyfriend is considerably bigger and thicker. So when we have intercourse it usually hurts or it will start hurting after 11 to 15 min. of sex. Will the pain stop the more we have sex and the more I get use to his size?
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Unless you're spending enough time in foreplay before penetration, and using plenty of lube, you may continue to experience discomfort.
You must make him aware of your discomfort and ask him to slow down, stop momentarily, etc. so you can relax more or adjust your position.
Your comfort and pleasure should be important to him, if it's not or you haven't communicated your discomfort to him, then you need to talk.
Don't just grit your teeth though, he could be doing damage. Remember, this is supposed to be about pleasure, not endurance.