Spit or swallowing?

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Registered: 05-07-2007
Spit or swallowing?
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Mon, 06-11-2007 - 11:10am
My DW have been married for 8 years and we have an excellent sex life. When she gives me a bj she always runs to the sink after I orgasm and spit it in the sink. Any advise on how I can help her be more comfortable by swallowing instead? Thank you for your advise.
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Registered: 03-08-2004
Mon, 06-11-2007 - 12:13pm

I never had a problem with swallowing so don't know what could make her more comfortable about doing.

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Registered: 03-31-2007
Mon, 06-11-2007 - 3:43pm

I think Tish gave you excellent options for her not swallowing. Another thing she could do is let it run out of her mouth and back down your penis. That way she isn't swallowing, nor running to the sink. You can also keep a glass of water or a beverage on the night table. Having a drink after can change the taste in her mouth.

Have you asked her why she is opposed to swallowing? It could be that she doesn't care for the taste, and your diet may be able to alter that. If you are a beer drinker, that often makes the taste more bitter. Fruits and juices tend to make it more sweet.



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Registered: 05-11-2007
Thu, 06-14-2007 - 11:57am

Good suggestions for you there from the other posters but if you have asked her why what was the reason? If she thinks it may be bad for her I can assure her that it isn't. High in protein and good for whatever ails you lol. I would think if she didn't like the taste it would just be better to swallow. When she spits it out it she would be able to taste it even more than if she just swallows it.

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Registered: 11-09-2006
Thu, 06-14-2007 - 12:34pm
Ok, got a question about this... for me, I ran into a problem with an ex to where

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Registered: 05-11-2007
Thu, 06-14-2007 - 12:50pm
Whatever they eat can be transfer (in taste) to their semen. Did that ex eat a lot of spicy foods? Peppers can change the whole body chemistry. I wouldn't be afraid to try it again. The one time it burnt your throat he had probably had jalapenos on something earlier in the day.
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Registered: 11-09-2006
Thu, 06-14-2007 - 12:57pm
Thanks for your reply. I guess I will have to give it another try. What are some things that are better to eat and things to stay away from? One major thing Dh loves is Tea... will this cause any strange tastes?

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Registered: 05-11-2007
Thu, 06-14-2007 - 1:01pm

I'd say with tea that it shouldn't effect it a lot. Strong tasting foods are usually the culprit. Things like broccoli, peppers, strong spices, some cheeses, etc can definitely change the taste. Fruits tend to make it sweeter though too. Feed him a couple teaspoons of pure honey a couple of hours beforehand and see what that does :)

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Registered: 11-09-2006
Thu, 06-14-2007 - 1:06pm
Ok, thanks for the tips. :)

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Registered: 04-12-2007
Thu, 06-14-2007 - 1:43pm
I hate to be the one to say this but if your sex life is good and has been for 8 years then why the sudden intrest in her spitting or swallowing? At this point it is more then likly routine for her to do this. You might try to watch some porn with girls swolling (hard to find but out here) and gauge her reaction that way. This would also bring up the subject in the right setting, other then over dinner or while she's down there. LOL
Good luck
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Registered: 08-16-2006
Thu, 06-14-2007 - 7:51pm
One suggestion is to unload your ejaculate into a wash cloth. Or, you could catch it in your own hand then swallow it yourself. Then it's swallowed if that makes you happy and it's not in her mouth where she doesn't like it.