Squirting orgasm?

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-03-2007
Squirting orgasm?
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Thu, 01-10-2008 - 5:09pm

Hi folks,
My GF has occasionally has an orgasm where she will sort of ejaculate lots of wet stuff all over me while I am inside her. It comes out in buckets all over the place and feels great and sounds even better. It usually happens on about her third or fourth climax and once or twice she has done it while I was giving her oral sex and the amount of stuff that she produces is just amazing. She will literally soak the sheets and half the mattress.

My question is could this be a "squirting orgasm"?
I have always just assumed that she lost control of her bladder because I was wearing her out. I often sort of "push" her a bit to have an extra climax or two when I know she is exhausted "because she can" but she has admitted to me on several occasions that she really enjoys this.

What do you think?

iVillage Member
Registered: 12-03-2007
In reply to: ad0be
Tue, 01-15-2008 - 4:35pm

Only when I'm really in the mood...
Which is generally 24 hours a day.

I'm the only guy I know who can have wet dreams after three hours of sex and two or three orgasms by masturbation in one evening :(

Do you think I may have an issue here?

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Registered: 12-03-2007
In reply to: ad0be
Tue, 01-15-2008 - 4:42pm

Have you tried begging?
Works for me sometimes >:D
Seriously d00d the grass is always greener....

She is only in the mood once or twice a week. After that I have to work things out on my own. Thats where this forum is really helpful. Lots of great advice and info about this kind of issue. Check out the solo sex forum here: http://messageboards.ivillage.com/iv-rlsolo

Here is a post about how I deal with my personal horndoggery and her "normal" libedo...
http://messageboards.ivillage.com/n/mb/message.asp?webtag=iv-rlsecretsofm&msg=11446.1&ctx=0

Use it or Lose it :)
-=ad0be=-

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Registered: 03-31-2007
In reply to: ad0be
Tue, 01-15-2008 - 4:59pm

Damn, most of my friends are married -- but I do have the name of a good divorce lawyer.

As nhgal said, there are a lot of women around here that are in the same predicament as you -- only thing, most of them don't talk as if they don't like their spouses. I saw that you referred to her as a "witch" in your profile (I assume that's your wife you were talking about), and you mention being nervous that she might discover you here. Perhaps if she did find out you were posting here it would help her realize how frustrated you are with your life as it is. So, I wonder, what prevents you from being able to get a divorce so you can lead a happy life?

I'm not asking to be judgmental (I think the other members can back me up on that) -- it's just something that I'm curious about.





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Registered: 03-31-2007
In reply to: ad0be
Tue, 01-15-2008 - 5:05pm
Great post on the SOMS board, adobe! It sounds like the two of you faced your problems and worked them out very well.




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Registered: 08-01-2006
In reply to: ad0be
Tue, 01-15-2008 - 8:58pm
Nope.. I think you're just wonderful....

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Registered: 01-11-2008
In reply to: ad0be
Wed, 01-16-2008 - 8:21am

So you want to know what has me locked up so I cant get divorced and lead a "happy" life?

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Registered: 03-31-2007
In reply to: ad0be
Wed, 01-16-2008 - 11:00am

I do have kids, and understand the emotions that would go into a decision to not be part of their life everyday. I'm also a step-mom, so I guess I've had different experiences as well. For my step kids, having their dad in a stable, happy relationship was the best that could have happened for them. Their mom was an alcoholic, and no matter how much their dad loved her, it couldn't make their life right.

You can't fool children, and if you try too hard to, you often cause more bad than good. If you really have such bad feelings toward your wife, then they certainly can feel that vibe. What is that teaching them about what they should want for their own life? If you were to meet your ideal friend, that could open a whole new can of worms. More than anything else, kids want to be able to believe in their parents, to have good examples set for them, and to be able to trust that their parents are who they believe they are. Problem solving is a great skill to pass on to your kids.

If one of your kids was in your shoes, how would you want them to live their life? I just think that's another thing to think about and look at. Money is nothing in the big picture. You'll be able to get another Harley one day, and your kids won't be minors forever, so child support will end. If you put yourself in a position to have a happy life, they will also learn from that. You might even have a woman in your life that can teach your children a lot of things about love and relationships that they aren't learning right now.

Have you and your wife ever tried to go to counseling? Going together is great, but even if you went individually, it can be very helpful.





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Registered: 01-11-2008
In reply to: ad0be
Wed, 01-16-2008 - 12:20pm
let me re-iterate..........I dont truly not love her, she is a gerat person, there is just no marriage there anymore.
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Registered: 02-20-2007
In reply to: ad0be
Wed, 01-16-2008 - 12:56pm
Does your wife feel the same as you?
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Registered: 01-11-2008
In reply to: ad0be
Wed, 01-16-2008 - 1:55pm
Does she feel the same as me in what way, she is the one that has become frigid..........not me........of course we have talked about it...........and my kids are 12-9-7.....