Squirting orgasm?
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| Thu, 01-10-2008 - 5:09pm |
Hi folks,
My GF has occasionally has an orgasm where she will sort of ejaculate lots of wet stuff all over me while I am inside her. It comes out in buckets all over the place and feels great and sounds even better. It usually happens on about her third or fourth climax and once or twice she has done it while I was giving her oral sex and the amount of stuff that she produces is just amazing. She will literally soak the sheets and half the mattress.
My question is could this be a "squirting orgasm"?
I have always just assumed that she lost control of her bladder because I was wearing her out. I often sort of "push" her a bit to have an extra climax or two when I know she is exhausted "because she can" but she has admitted to me on several occasions that she really enjoys this.
What do you think?

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I'm glad that you said good things about her in your more recent post to me. I think what I found difficult to understand is why you would refer to a nice person, or a person that you could like on any level, as a witch.
There are a lot of members here that are in similar situations. Some are women, some are men, but they all live in a mismatched libido world. In most of those cases, they still love and admire their partner -- so they don't call them derogatory names.
Has your wife offered you any alternatives for sexual release? Have you ever asked her how she would feel if you took on a lover? There are relationships that exists with such rules, even when the partners aren't mismatched. For me, it would make a big difference to know I was being honest with my partner.
I hope you stick around and join in the fun here, but there are a couple of other boards where you might also find some helpful advice:
Mismatched Libidos
http://messageboards.ivillage.com/iv-rlclashing
Taboos (see the folder on Open Relationships)
http://messageboards.ivillage.com/iv-rltaboos
Hot Topic: Married Without Romance
http://messageboards.ivillage.com/iv-rlhtmarpub
The members here can be a very compassionate bunch. I think you'll find as you mingle that you'll get lots of great advice.
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Well, it makes me happy that you changed the title. Even without the "dear", just wife is fine.
I do understand the complications of life and marriage -- have even lived through a few of my own. I guess it's just a respect thing with me. My DH pisses me off sometimes, and I might call him bad names in my head or when talking with a really good friend, but I would never make a blanket statement indicating that he's generally not loved and respected for his role in my life. If I did, I would feel like it said more about me than it did him.
BTW, we have a fun club here that might be right up your alley. It's called the Pouter's Club. The ladies that are there everyday might enjoy the company of a regular male -- if you can handle the heat in the kitchen! There are a lot of posts there, you may not want to read them all, but in general, we have fun. Here's the link:
http://messageboards.ivillage.com/n/mb/message.asp?webtag=iv-rlletstalkab&msg=21348.1
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She is definetely having a squirting orgasm!
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