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Wed, 12-05-2007 - 3:26pm

I have a sensative question. I've been w/ 2 men in my life, both slim. I'm 57 and starting to date. I've met a guy and will probably be having to deal with the subject of sex soon. My question is he's 62 and has a santa clause belly. I don't want to screw up, is there anything I need to know about sex w/ a "more to love" man. I'm really concerned because we don't know each other that well and he's very shy. I want to make it enjoyable for both of us...


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Registered: 03-31-2007
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Wed, 12-05-2007 - 3:54pm

Welcome to the board, hwh50.

I haven't ever been with a guy who had a belly to speak of, but I can't imagine there would be anything out of the ordinary you need to know about having sex with him. There might be some positions that he isn't comfortable in, or able to perform in. Chances are he'll guide you into the positions that he prefers. Two that usually work well for larger people are WOT (woman on top) and doggy style.

If his belly makes it too difficult for you to do WOT, then you can place a pillow on either side of him to raise your legs up higher. (I have short legs and need to do that anyway.)

Since he's shy, just try to relax and take things as they present themselves. Often, sex with a new partner can be stressful for both, and sometimes it doesn't work out so well. Just keep practicing ;-)

If you get a chance, stop back by and let us know how it goes. We love updates!