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| Mon, 07-11-2005 - 12:11am |
About 3 years ago, I slept with an old friend. We ended up being an occasional Friday night fling for about 8 months - then we lost touch...
Until last month. I went to a party and wasn't there 2 seconds before he was found me. We started started talking, he gave me his phone number, and ended up back at his place for some incredible sex.
A week later, I called him and left a message. A week after that, he called me back. Ever since then we've been talking on the phone and texting each other almost every other day. No 'relationship' or anything - we both just want sex. A couple of times he's asked me to come over - but I've never gone...always said I was busy as not to appear desperate...LOL
Just this weekend he asked me to come over. We talked, drank a couple beers, watched tv - normal stuff. It was strange. Eventually we made it to the bedroom - where he is just fantastic. And afterwards we talked and watched tv.
I'm afraid that I am getting too comfortable with him, and that I'm going to end up falling for him. He says he loves my body and how I look, I'm 5 foot and weigh over 250 lbs. (He's 6'7" and 230.) I cannot fall for him...
So why do I want to be with him all the time?
Liz

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As I said, "not for everyone." I would never and have never shared my body with someone I didn't love. So, each of us gets to decide IF love and sex will be separate in our own lives.
Edited 7/14/2005 3:15 pm ET ET by katmandoo2001
At least twice I have decided that love and sex will be separate in
my life. Marriage is a great idea, but people do "change" and sometimes
we face tough decisions. I had chosen to stay and love, but go elsewhere
for the sex that was missing within the marriage. The first marriage
eventually dissolved under alcohol, drugs, and her bi-curiosity.
The second marriage looked like it would be over, but we talked and both
of us agreed to try again. In this case, too, I had decided that sex
and love would be separate in my life. Little did I know that she had
already decided the same thing.
Sex only with someone that you love is a high & noble ideal, but it
doesn't suit all couples in all seasons or forever. I'm cutting Liz
some slack. We all shud. We haven't walked a mile in her shoes. This
board is supposed to be supportive, friendly & caring. Opinions are
one thing, flaming someone is something more cruel.
Big
Who's flaming anyone? I gave an opinion on her statement about love and sex being separate. I said nothing about her personally.
Learn the definition of "flaming", Big, before you accuse someone of doing it.
Edited 7/15/2005 11:25 am ET ET by katmandoo2001
Maybe but some of us never eat one without the other. For my DH and myself, sex is an expression of love. And it's a choice we made when we married. If that changed, then we wouldn't be married anymore. May seem pie-in-the-sky to some, but it's worked for us for almost 30 years.
Edited 7/15/2005 1:47 am ET ET by katmandoo2001
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Edited 7/15/2005 11:17 am ET ET by steelcountrylovin
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