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| Mon, 07-11-2005 - 12:11am |
About 3 years ago, I slept with an old friend. We ended up being an occasional Friday night fling for about 8 months - then we lost touch...
Until last month. I went to a party and wasn't there 2 seconds before he was found me. We started started talking, he gave me his phone number, and ended up back at his place for some incredible sex.
A week later, I called him and left a message. A week after that, he called me back. Ever since then we've been talking on the phone and texting each other almost every other day. No 'relationship' or anything - we both just want sex. A couple of times he's asked me to come over - but I've never gone...always said I was busy as not to appear desperate...LOL
Just this weekend he asked me to come over. We talked, drank a couple beers, watched tv - normal stuff. It was strange. Eventually we made it to the bedroom - where he is just fantastic. And afterwards we talked and watched tv.
I'm afraid that I am getting too comfortable with him, and that I'm going to end up falling for him. He says he loves my body and how I look, I'm 5 foot and weigh over 250 lbs. (He's 6'7" and 230.) I cannot fall for him...
So why do I want to be with him all the time?
Liz

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I agree and acknowledged that above. We each get to choose how we'll have our peanut butter and there's plenty of peanut butter to go around!
Edited 7/15/2005 12:04 pm ET ET by katmandoo2001
You said it yourself....
"I'm afraid that I am getting too comfortable with him, and that I'm going to end up falling for him."
"So why do I want to be with him all the time?"
I agree with Kat, it sounds as though you already have feelings for him at least more than you should if you're in a FWB situation.
Question for you: How would you feel if he met a woman and developed feelings for her and tossed you aside? That would probably be the best way to guage how deep your feelings for him are. If you'd be upset, then you should get out now before you fall deeper, if not, then continue to do what you're doing...as they'll most likely be no fallout.
Edited 7/15/2005 11:43 am ET ET by rain_dancer_iam
Ok - so I admit it - I have feelings for him.
And some of those feelings are a little more than friendly, but I do not know if I will ever be able to tell him - and take the risk of never seeing him again...again.
If I could just stop thinking about him then I would be ok. But I wonder what he's doing, who he's with - and if it's another woman.
Maybe I should end it...
Blessings -
Liz
Nothing ventured, nothing gained.
I say go for it. At least if you tried, you gave him your best shot.
If he rejects you this time then you're faced with getting over him, but at least then you can move on with your life. Been there, done that. But if I hadn't, I'd still be wondering.
Now she's just a memory.
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So...I guess you're either with him right now, or you're off the board ??
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