staying wet during sex

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Registered: 08-09-2004
staying wet during sex
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Wed, 09-29-2004 - 7:57pm
My fiance and I have sex multiple times a day (guess you could say we're each other's porn stars! haha) I used to get very wet and stay that way during the entire intercorse session, but lately I just don't stay wet. I am definately turned on and in the mood, but my body isn't responding from those emotions. I'll get a little wet in the beginning and then dry up as we continue. We've never before had to use lube and have had to the last few days. It wouldn't be problem, but last night he even stopped and pulled out to question me because he figures that I'm not getting into it and in result, not wet. I know that about a week before menstration this can happen, but it's not for another two weeks for me. Any thoughts or ideas, besides lube, that might help? And yes, there is foreplay going on to stimulate. I was thinking that it might be getting a little dried up because of how much we've been doing it lately, but like I've said, nothing has changed and this is never how it used to be. Also, I was thinking that the friction of him going in and out might dry me up a little, but who knows! Thanks for your thoughts! Hope to hear from you all soon.

-Jessica
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Registered: 09-28-2004
Wed, 09-29-2004 - 9:00pm
Lube is always there when needed, it doesn't judge, or complain, SO Get to know your lube..lol.

Stuck on earth

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Registered: 03-26-2003
Thu, 09-30-2004 - 11:41am
Reassure your guy that your sudden lack of lubrication has nothing to do with him. We have no more control over how much lubrication we produce than men do over the amount of ejaculate they produce.

Hormones control how much lubrication we produce and since those aren't stagnant (and since we aren't machines), the amount CAN and will vary from time to time.

In the meantime, keep the trusty KY, Astroglide or lubricant of your choice by the bedside (EVERYONE needs them occasionally) and you might increase your water intake...you could be dehydrated.

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Registered: 08-09-2004
Fri, 10-01-2004 - 2:26pm
thank you both for your advise!

-Jessica