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| Wed, 09-29-2004 - 9:46am |
Ok so, a little while ago my coworker and I decided to go out to the bars. Her husband decided to come at the last minute. I had met her husband a few times before this, but we had never spent any real time together. He also did not know that I had been intimate with his wife. Well the three of us got along fabulously. We all had way too much to drink, and one thing led to another. We ended up back at their house and after a few more drinks, we ended up having a threesome. I was already comfortable with L, but adding her husband to the mix was amazing. I went home the next morning wondering why I had never done this before, and swearing to myself it wouldnt be the last time. And it wasn't. I believe the three of us got together about four times in one month. Each time better than the last. However I started realizing that I was really attracted to her husband more than the occasional "hookup" We started meeting for coffee and lunch breaks. (All without L knowing) Eventually I started tiring of L and my secret relationship, and wanted to go more for her husband. L obviously knows something is going on as I have been pulling away from her, but she would never guess that I am now sleeping with her husband behind her back. I feel really bad about this because initially I did have strong feelings for L, but I guess nothing can replace what a man can give you. What should I do? I don't like lying to L day after day, and she is getting pretty annoying with her constant whining about "us" There really isn't an "us" anymore, just the occasional pity sex to get her to quiet down.
Now my real problem. I recently met a new "girlfriend" and would like to introduce the husband to her, for a threesome. How do I do this without L finding out? She is really getting in the way now. TIA for your help
-- Karen--

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Edited 9/29/2004 2:33 pm ET ET by life_is_but_a_dream
i'm not sure what your motive was for bringing your situation to the board. the actual question you sought advice for was simple and you could have answered it yourself. could it have been, instead, your desire to come straight with someone even if it is anonymously.
in the long run your actions will leave you unsatisfied, lacking true intimacy.
Why hurt anyone? What is the benefit in calling someone who is fat, fat? How do you even know anything about that fat person? What did that fat person do to you? What did the spouse do to YOU personally that they deserve to be hurt by you? The world would be a much better place if everyone would stop being so selfish and be considerate and respectful of others.
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