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| Wed, 09-29-2004 - 9:46am |
Ok so, a little while ago my coworker and I decided to go out to the bars. Her husband decided to come at the last minute. I had met her husband a few times before this, but we had never spent any real time together. He also did not know that I had been intimate with his wife. Well the three of us got along fabulously. We all had way too much to drink, and one thing led to another. We ended up back at their house and after a few more drinks, we ended up having a threesome. I was already comfortable with L, but adding her husband to the mix was amazing. I went home the next morning wondering why I had never done this before, and swearing to myself it wouldnt be the last time. And it wasn't. I believe the three of us got together about four times in one month. Each time better than the last. However I started realizing that I was really attracted to her husband more than the occasional "hookup" We started meeting for coffee and lunch breaks. (All without L knowing) Eventually I started tiring of L and my secret relationship, and wanted to go more for her husband. L obviously knows something is going on as I have been pulling away from her, but she would never guess that I am now sleeping with her husband behind her back. I feel really bad about this because initially I did have strong feelings for L, but I guess nothing can replace what a man can give you. What should I do? I don't like lying to L day after day, and she is getting pretty annoying with her constant whining about "us" There really isn't an "us" anymore, just the occasional pity sex to get her to quiet down.
Now my real problem. I recently met a new "girlfriend" and would like to introduce the husband to her, for a threesome. How do I do this without L finding out? She is really getting in the way now. TIA for your help
-- Karen--

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No you are not a rapist, pedophile, or a killer, but all we were trying to show you is that you share similar characteristics with them(not to the same degree of course). When you first had sex with L(as will be with any future others that you choose to have an affair with), you and she may have had consensual sex, but that has nothing to do with the spouse.
Just trying to sort out what you are saying
Edited 9/30/2004 2:59 pm ET ET by life_is_but_a_dream
She cheated with "L" it is wrong to do that even if it is consensual.
She cheated with the husband. It is wrong even if it is consensual.
Something tells me this isnt the first time shes been the "other woman" shes too good at it. Her problem is, she really doesnt see anything wrong with what shes doing, and whats scary is there are thousands and thousands of people out there just like her.
Repeated deviant behavior begets deviant behavior.
Not everyone who sleeps around becomes a cheater(at least knowingly)quite the contrary.
Seems people have lost sight of whats right and whats wrong in the sexual arena.
If sleeping around is ok, then where did the term whore or slut come from? (may refer to both male and female )? Or are those terms outdated?
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