Still Horny

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Registered: 10-10-2005
Still Horny
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Wed, 05-17-2006 - 1:22pm
My hubby is is now in his 50's and i'm in my late 40's. And our SEX Life has been going down hill now for the longest time. It's now getting even worse. He try's to take care of me & ocasionally it works but even after it works i'm still Very HORNY. Don't know what to do. He says he thinks i just need what he can't give me, which is a nice long Hard One. Any advice would sure be appreciated. Always HORNY & FRUSTRATED. Vibrators don't work. I need the REAL THING............ DESPERATE.........................
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Registered: 07-26-2005
In reply to: semibunny
Wed, 05-17-2006 - 3:06pm

There's a lot more to love, sex and intimacy than a "long hard one"! What else is going on in your marriage that makes you so frustrated?

If "it" only works occasionally, has he been to see a doctor about that? He could have prostate problems, hormonal problems, or many other physical problems that can cause erectile dysfunction. Is he on any medications? Many of those cause problems, too. He can talk to his doctor about THAT, and possibly have his meds changed, if that's the problem.

Just because he's in his fifties, doesn't mean he's "finished". There are lots of things that can be done to help him. Men can go on being sexual into their 70's and 80's, if their health is ok.

Sometimes problems in the bedroom are caused by problems OUT of the bedroom, too. What else is going on in your marriage? Just the fact that he knows you're frustrated with him can cause him to have problems. Rather than being desperate and frustrated, have him do something about it, starting out with seeing a doctor.