stomach "pains"
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stomach "pains"
| Tue, 05-10-2005 - 8:46pm |
Does anyone ever have the problem of having stomach pains after unprotected sex?? i don't do it often only cuz i don't really wanna get pregnant but when i do have unprotected sex my stomach feels weird for the following week????? don't really wanna ask my doctor about it if i don't have to.. and no im not on birth control so that can't have anything to do with it..

Unprotected sex isn't going to give you stomach pains, but fear of pregnancy sure can! If you don't want to get pregnant, then WHY are you not on birth control, or at least using condoms? And what about STD's?
If you don't want to get pregnant, then don't have unprotected sex, and then you won't have stomach pains.
You should not get stomach pains or be uncomfortable
I agree with Tish. You either want a baby, or you don't. It's not like getting a puppy....and if you decide you don't want all the work involved, you can take it to the pound and forget about it.
A baby is a lifelong commitment. You're legally and morally responsible for that child for 18 years, and that's not the end. You're a mother until the day you die. You get pregnant because you KNOW you're ready for the responsibility, and you KNOW you can provide a loving and happy home for that child. That includes a mother AND a father. It sounds like your b/f is about as ambivalent as you are if he's taking chances that might get you pregnant.
As for b/c making you "achy"......that's something that your doctor should know, and there are lots of different kinds of b/c, patches, shots, implants, IUD's.....your body should be able to handle something until you're SURE you're ready to be a mother.
You've been with your b/f for four years. Have you ever discussed having a baby with him? Does HE want one? Hopefully you're not thinking that you getting pregnant will make him want to be a father, or make him want to stay with you for the rest of your life.
Until you make all these important decisions, you need to NOT get pregnant. And yes, I do think the pains are emotional rather than physical. There's nothing in semen that would give you pains for a week......if you don't have pains when a condom is used.
thanx