Stop Pulling On My Nips!!!
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Stop Pulling On My Nips!!!
| Fri, 07-02-2004 - 9:54am |
My SO and I have been together for almost 6 years, great sex I might add!
I love when he nibbles and tugs on my nipples but recently his fetish is to pull HARD and bite HARD on my nipples. I have asked him to treat my nipples gently, but he just replies "Oh stop complaining, I like it." I want to please him and therefore I endure the pain. But the pain turns me off!
I've thought of pulling his "sac" real hard, looking at him straight in the eye, and asking him "THIS IS HOW IT FEELS!!!!" However, that would be the psycho approach.
Any ideas on how I can communicate to him to go easy on my nips?

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The worst thing to do is let this go on. You may want to please him but that will soon turn to hate. You will shut down and not want to have sexual relations because of the anticipation of pain. Tell him it hurts and you do not like it. that should be enough. If he continues return the favor and see if he likes it.
Is there any reason he may be holding some kind of resentment towards you, and wants to cause you pain. Like punish you?
The next time he does it, tell him again, to stop, that it hurts. If he won't stop, then the session ends right there! Other than retribution, what else can you do? Something is wrong if he doesn't care that you're in pain! Of course, HE has nipples, doesn't he? Maybe a little of the same?
Sincerely,
Stephen
Have a great 4th of July weekend. Good luck.
Perhaps the problem is I only approach him about it when he is actually doing it.
I am going to talk to him about it over dinner...things usually sink in after a few hours. Hopefully, by tomorrow night, he will have remembered our conversation.
If not... I guess I am going to have to Hoover the sac... with my teeth!!!!
Again, seriously.... thank you for the great replies!
...maybe afterwards, if there is some quiet mellow time...tell him then, that you love having your nipples stimulated...but when it hurts too much, then it takes away the pleasure and just hurts.....
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